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Here is the text conversation you asked me to type:
Me: So I was talking to my friend about going to aparty friday
I’ve known her for a while and I think she likes me a little bit
I went to meet her and her friends and when we got to the fratthey wouldn’t let guys in so they just bailed on me
I gave her a little attitude and she said to call her, which I dismissed
Today she texts me:”How are you”
What do you think I should do?
I feel like need to give her a little punishment to her know that this kind of behavior is not acceptable
So what do you think I should do about this girl?
She just texted me asking if I’m mad at her
CJ: Tell her: “What would you do that would make me mad at you?”
Me: She said: “IDK you weren’t responding”
So she’s trying to play coy
CJ: That’s exactly the kind of response I was guessing… like “What DID you do that would make me mad?” Has her thinkingof exactly what it is she did
Me: But what should my response be to her playing coy and saying she doesn’t know?
CJ: No rush, time is on your side
Me: So response for now, let her get back to me with an apology?
CJ:Although she is thinking it(obviously) than that is enough. She already saw that you hold off from getting right back at to her and is trying the two together. Now you can play totally cool and unaffected
You can even play it up a bit: “I’m sure if you had done something, you would make it up to me”
( You don’t need an apology. She might still hold off from admitting outloud she had done something wrong. Even when it happened, if you had played it off like you didn’t care either way she probably wouldn’t have done it. Girls are like that, seeing you cared inspires girls to do wacky things)
Me: Should I text it now or give it like an hour or two
CJ: By not directly saying you were bothered at all shows what she has no effect on you. You have fun wherever you go and she can come along or miss it. Even if she bring up that night, I would talk about something super phenomenal and way more fun than the party she missed cause she went. Give it some time, claim you’ve just been busy.. and gently see how she makes it up to you. You are slightlymore in the zone of her chasing you. Earning your validation, don’t play it too much or she’ll stop trying. You’re just busy and couldn’t get right back to her the second she texted you.