•“ I’ve been to one daygame meetup so far and really enjoyed it and benefited from it. The atmosphere was fun, supportive, and welcoming. CJ was very involved, gave a lot of personal attention and help, and was very encouraging and positive. His advice made sense, helpful, and was done in a simple and manageable way. In general CJ seemed to be a cool guy who really wants to help other men succeed in this area of life. I also enjoyed the camaraderie with Justin. It’s about a three plus hour round trip for me to Boston but I’ll definitely be going again because it’s worth it! 
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— Kyle on Oct 13, 2011.
[private]“”"I’m doing the writeup here for Saturday night at White Horse right now and even though I’m gonna be covering all this in more detail for my personal progress thread I just wanted to get at you personally while I’m feeling this pure gratitude and excitement and overall happiness to have met you. And specifically while I am writing this thread on Saturday thank you for not just setting the groundwork that allowed me to be so effective in so many different areas and sets so quickly and efficiently that night but also specifically for pushing me back into that set for the SNL after I came to you and explained how I was feeling down and like I had fucked it up when some time had gone by after I should have already pulled and we were approaching closing time. You telling me how maybe I did fuck it up but how maybe I didn’t and the only way to know is to go back in … and then I went back in and it actually worked and I was able to pull after I thought I blew it… Which would NOT have happened if I had been left to my own devices and had not had that extra push from you! so yea… thanks man. I appreciate that and that SNL that night was definitely on you and I owe you way more than one at this point.
and you know just in general if you hadn’t taught me about winging and plowing and pulling back during t-game I wouldn’t have known how to go about it in my night game and shit was just on point because you had set me up with that groundwork.
So thank you. “”"[/private]
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I just read a student’s letter to a 3rd party about my help to him. Many times I am just doing what I do to get the quickest results for a guy… but to hear these things from another perspective tells me what is working best too.
“Two months ago, in January 2011, my life was turned upside down. My girlfriend of eight years and I separated. We had been together since I was fifteen, which is pretty much my entire adult life. When we separated, I was twenty-three years old and not only had I never been single, but I had also never learned how to meet, talk to, or casually date the opposite sex.
It is interesting that every child in America is taught English grammar, algebra and history, but receives no instruction in arguably the most important aspect of life: personal relationships. We are expected to learn from observation and experience, but unfortunately, the reality is that many people simply do not. Moreover, the advice that we are given by our parents or friends is usually just plain wrong. Consequently, it is no wonder that so many people are socially awkward and dissatisfied with their social abilities and situation.
Happily, I found someone who professionally teaches dating training. Over the past two months, in short blocks of time, C.J. has provided me with dating theory, tools, and most importantly, field experience. Every session he would give me some pointers on how to improve myself, ranging from fashion, to posture, and even, to positive thinking. He would also explain dating theory and illuminate— the way that women think and behave. Then, we would go out together. I would talk to dozens of different girls and C.J. would take notes. Later on we would go over each situation, and he would commend my good behavior, and point out the things that I could improve.
My life has changed dramatically. It is a revelation to discover how much fun it can be to go out and meet new people! No longer the chore that it once was, but instead, something I look forward to everyday. It is similarly liberating to cast off all that socialization that coerces us to act like boring automatons when we meet new people. C.J. has helped to allow the “true” me— the personality I wear when hanging out with my oldest and best friends— to playfully and quickly emerge when I meet new people. I highly suggest taking these first few positive steps if you are unhappy with your social situation. A coach is sure to be the best help.”
Sure my one-on-one short chunked session style at my rates may not make the most money, but it does reward and fulfill me on a deeper level to help guys make these dramatic changes in their life in such a short amount of time.[/private]
