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Ld’Adventure that sets you FREE

100% of every atom, of every cell of my body is. GOD told me it is my responibility to increase the replication, reproduction value of smart, refined, peaceful, well mannered men by my teaching so the become fruitful and multiply. <3 <3 <3

“Let d’Adventure Continue”, ~C.J. Clark

Be the challenge, hard to get

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Be a challenge, play hard to get.

Talk to her for a few minutes then walk away and do something else (this is key when [private] you see she is at a high point because of your interaction.

This keeps her wanting more. You can make her want what you have, what you are. Give her a little and then tease her a bit.

Do not make anything easy to get. Stay mysterious.

There is no need to answer questions about work so early. Be vague, especially if you have a really good answer. The most confident people never need to brag. Never give a woman a direct answer.

Play with her a little bit. Answer questions with questions. Get her to commit to something. If she complains or doesn’t like something, turn it up and give it back the way you would to our little sister.

Never give a woman exactly what  she asks for. Always send mixed signals. Tell her “let’s be friends” at random times to show her she is in danger of getting stuck in your ‘friend-zone’ and nothing else.

Be unpredictable. Keep mixing it up and changing the patterns. Be distinctive, not boring. As far as showing your interest, take two steps forward then one step back. That would be two steps that indicate your interest to her, with a separate single one to indicate you’re not interested.

Keep up the tension. Like playing poker, always raise & call her bluff. You can lead and move forward very confidently. There is no need to apologize, act apologetic or insecure. Don not try to get any approval or look like you are trying to impress people, especially girls. Softies are for the dryer[/private]

You call her, she agrees to meet up but you hear hesitation.

It is okay, this is a good place to indicate your feelings on these things. it is better to have everything on the table than [private] to have her stand you up. This way, you are more likely to go out with her at another time. You can easily tell her something like:

“There’s one thing I hate it is flakey people. You sound like you weren’t sure about this. If you’re not gonna show up, that’s cool but wasting my time is not.”

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To a really gorgeous girl with a super tight, hott body: “You know, you have a really interesting figure.”
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Attraction between people which leads

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friendships and romantic relationships. The study of interpersonal attraction is a major area of [private]research in social psychology. Interpersonal attraction is related to how much we like, love, dislike, or hate someone. It can be viewed as a force acting between two people that tends to draw them together and resist their separation. When measuring interpersonal attraction, one must refer to the qualities of the attracted as well as the qualities of the attractor to achieve predictive accuracy. It is suggested that attraction between people which leads to friendships and romantic relationships. The study of interpersonal attraction is a major area of research in social psychology. Interpersonal attraction is related to how much we like, love, dislike, or hate someone. It can be viewed as a force acting between two people that tends to draw them together and resist their separation. When measuring interpersonal attraction, one must refer to the qualities of the attracted as well as the qualities of the attractor to achieve predictive accuracy. It is suggested that to determine attraction, personality and situation must be taken into account.

 

Why ‘Three plus hour round trip’ to the weekly events I post is worth it

•“ I’ve been to one daygame meetup so far and really enjoyed it and benefited from it. The atmosphere was fun, supportive, and welcoming. CJ was very involved, gave a lot of personal attention and help, and was very encouraging and positive. His advice made sense, helpful, and was done in a simple and manageable way. In general CJ seemed to be a cool guy who really wants to help other men succeed in this area of life. I also enjoyed the camaraderie with Justin. It’s about a three plus hour round trip for me to Boston but I’ll definitely be going again because it’s worth it! :)

— Kyle on Oct 13, 2011.

Student thanks me for help

[private]“”"I’m doing the writeup here for Saturday night at White Horse right now and even though I’m gonna be covering all this in more detail for my personal progress thread I just wanted to get at you personally while I’m feeling this pure gratitude and excitement and overall happiness to have met you. And specifically while I am writing this thread on Saturday thank you for not just setting the groundwork that allowed me to be so effective in so many different areas and sets so quickly and efficiently that night but also specifically for pushing me back into that set for the SNL after I came to you and explained how I was feeling down and like I had fucked it up when some time had gone by after I should have already pulled and we were approaching closing time. You telling me how maybe I did fuck it up but how maybe I didn’t and the only way to know is to go back in … and then I went back in and it actually worked and I was able to pull after I thought I blew it… Which would NOT have happened if I had been left to my own devices and had not had that extra push from you! so yea… thanks man. I appreciate that and that SNL that night was definitely on you and I owe you way more than one at this point.

and you know just in general if you hadn’t taught me about winging and plowing and pulling back during t-game I wouldn’t have known how to go about it in my night game and shit was just on point because you had set me up with that groundwork.

So thank you. “”"[/private]