You are still that incredibly fun, interesting guy that she met. You have so many women that she has no idea if you are going to ask her out at all. You are totally un-needy. She wants you to tell her when and where to meet you. You don’t ask; you direct, since you are a leader.
Mainly, you want to reinforce in her mind…[private]
… that you are still that super fun guy she met, continue building lots of comfort (while keeping
the attraction fires burning), and last, but not least, get her to meet up with you.
The secret to good phone game is to be completely and totally un-needy. In any attractive woman’s life, there have been a million guys who she has her number to and lived to regret it; primarily because they made it a point to constantly ask her out at the slightest opportunity, whenever they had her on the phone. You are not going to be that guy. You are going to be that ultra-cool guy she wants to go out with but doesn’t give her any certainty that you will ever ask her out at all.
When you mention fun things you have in your upcoming plans, as soon as you hear her interest in them, it is so easy to suggest “Totally. I think we have room. You should definitely come along.”
“Our house almost got broken into when I was eight…but my if dad installed some swinging paint cans and some micro machines by the stairs that shit woulda never happened.”
Ok, from last Wednesday…I decided to log out this clip. I went into the Logan cafe…as I love it there…I figured a quick sandwich and a soda….Some beautiful bunny was leaning on the brochure counter looking as if she is waiting for someone…She was pretty model stat…Good-‘propa-lady’ like dressed on top of a Bally’s body…She held herself well, and when our eye contact was made…She humbly dropped [private] her gaze to the ground…for a couple a seconds…When she looks back up to see if I am still looking…which I was…I scoped her setup head to toes…On her look up she dropped her gaze again then a good 30 seconds before she looked to the side and the brochures…I figured I would say hi….
C.J.: “Hi, I do have a question for you.”
Beautiful Bunny at the Logan cafe: “Sure, what’s that?”
(I pause… pause. I paused for fun…)
C.J.: “Are you single?” (In my emotionless stone cold straight face)
Beautiful Bunnie: “Well, um…”
C.J.: “I’ll take that as a yes…” (I nodded in the grin that I felt creeping on…)
Beautiful Bunnie: (Laughter)
C.J.: “Well, I just happen to know someone that I
think might like you… if you’re more than
just a pretty face, that is… He’s fun and has
great taste, and I think you’d like him… I’d
love to sit down and get your life story, but I’m
on my way somewhere… do you have email?” I asked…
Beautiful Bunnie: “Yes.”
C.J.: Great… (I take out my favorite astronaut pen)… write it down for
me, and I’ll send you an email when I’m in ‘online time’.
I then folded her slip of paper slid it into the breast pocket of my jacket and wished her a good day…[/private]
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siege man reply my question on your page!! I checked deangelo’s sex secrets it helped me a lot but not on the question I asked =]
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Cj Clark Piona You got it brother, I am looking for my most detailed writings to share with you right here since you are not afraid to ask on my walls, in my groups, sites, I will post all paid content from my E-book material ABSOLUTELY FREE as my way of saying thanks, since the answers, Open Q&A help guys without the resourse to come to my Boston, National International events and may not yet have
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Cj Clark Piona …and may not yet have built up the confidence to admit they need to know..or built up the confidence to ask anybody yet.
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Cj Clark Piona AND ALWAYS FEEL FREE TO ASK, since the reason why 90+% of my time is doing these same things FOR FREE is because I lov e it so much and love love so much…and I think it the most inner fulfillment we habve here in life possible….WAY MORE than a million material luxuries so many people chase to try and have too many of….This love stuff really fills an inner
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Cj Clark Piona …fills an inner place that better than all the drugs, thrill rides, a complete peace in happiness that I do find to be the ultimate secret to happiness, Love, inner love, intimate love, self love with who you love, and sex, as I see it IS the ultimate expression of loving those moments…al of that time together in it’s most intimate way
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Cj Clark Piona attitude like jersey Shore promotes..I fall in lve and love forever, still wholeheartedly in love with the girl I lost my virginity to…and a myriad of beautiful women I have met since..I fall in love, with girls even with no sex, to enjoy those completely moments…where as it led me to finally love myself for real, the hardest love of them all. Thank you very much Blina, feel free to send anyone you like my way, I \
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Blina Ventos Am also saying thanks for helping me as a brother am glad, am still young but HB’S here keep wondering how I sarge them and am just 20 =]
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Cj Clark Piona I will be more than happy to help and when they tell me Blina sent them, they get the same treatment as a fine getnleman such as yourself does, Thank you
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Cj Clark Piona Keep at it brother. I was courting girls twice my age when I was 20, loving them, and they too taught me so much about the world and about love…and they are women who already had their experience with guyus to know how to choose them, I was humbly honored to be in their hearts, and for them to be in mine
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Blina Ventos I like the part where you fall in love with girls even without having sex with them..I appreciate your support and I believe you gonna support me to become a pua
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Las Vegas is the world’s adult Disney World. So image being there with a Dating coach guiding you along…scratch that, Image being there with 3-4 coaches!
There is a mansion in Vegas that is creating a buzz in this Seduction “Community”. Yes I said Mansion, 5 bedrooms and baths, fireplaces…yes more than one, POOL! and more!
“Hey hunny, great talking to you, you should come to the after party, AT OUR HOUSE, with a POOL, and Jacuzzi!!” ~C.J. “The Siege” to girls at team pull with JerseyBoy in LA.
Read that quote over again.
Now remeber it. Once you are rolling along in conversation with some new girls, drop that into conversation to see some girl’s eyes light up!
The from there all you have to do is work out logistics to move you all back to the Place wwhen sexy fun is abbout to ahppen.
You see, Siege is there with a single fun outcome in mind that will prioritize the others throughout what is going on. Sure He’ll be enjoying the rest ov=f Vegas, with a particular radar on.
And ALSO rememer, what he is looking to have he gets so once one girl in the group is making out, that feeling transfers to the girl you are talking to with him as your wing.
Then she want’s to making out, this increasing your ability to escalate with her ENPORMOUSLY!!
Then once back to the pad, the girl you are talking to hears/sees sexy time going on with C.J. and his girl. She too want to be having sexy-time since the mere thought of hearing her friend enjoying the pleasures she wants, willl raise her buying temperature like you’d never believe…that is unless you have singed up foro the Vegas Event
This is not your everyday meet-up or weekend boot camp, you and the coaches DO NOT part ways for hours after the outing to your respective hotel rooms. You get a text from a girl after the night is done, there is a coach right there ready to help!
This is a project house weekend in the city that parties 24/7! on Halloween weekend no less!
This isn’t just locals, this is everyone from every where, flying/driving in to party and be naughty!
Guys this is a chance to get out and broaden your horizons! Travel and bring home stories to your friends and even women in your home town. SO when she asks have you traveled your response can be something other than “Yes with my mom and dad, to Disney world, when i was FIVE!
The problem in this are of self-improvement is that there is too many who want to read material for days or months on end and never strp out of their home or their OR their comfort zone then go out with others who do that same thing, and it ends up being “The Blind leading the Blind”
Lets put a stop to that and hit Vegas with coaches and make some memories to last a life time!
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There is some people on this forum heading to Vegas, so I thought I’d put in my recommendations and what I’ve learned:
1. Girls at tables won’t talk to you that much.
Well, if it’s tables like Craps or Roulette, they got time to talk after their turn, or during their turn, but when it comes down to card games, they would prefer not to talk, but think up ways on how to win. You can make quick and witty comments to grab her attention then pull her to a different table, but conversation wise, no- they will not talk to you.
2. Girls are easier at the slot machines.
Slot machines are designed so you can take your time with them. There is no pressure or rush to do anything. So they can stop whatever they are doing and talk to you, or play and talk at the same time.
3. Pull them from different parts of the casino.
The casinos have a lot of things to look at, and places to be. Such as bars, clubs, slot machines, tables, or even watching a game together. Pull them to different areas to create small intimate moments that you can expand on later.
4. Pull them to different casinos.
It’s like making small intimate moments inside the casino, you are now making a larger memory to help raise the attraction and comfort. Also, there is open liquor laws in Vegas. Share a drink outside by bridge that connects the Excaliber to the NYC Hotel, or watch the pirate show at the Treasure Island hotel for free.
5. Shopping Malls inside the casino and the Vegas Strip are awesome places to meet women too.
It’s like Day GSF, except you can pull them into the bedroom without leaving your hotel/casino (well, depending on where you are. I recommend Ceasars Palace. A lot of high class and beautiful girls there.)
6. Wednesday night (or was it Thursday?) at the Planet Hollywood Hotel/casino
Strippers on poles and half naked women everywhere. What’s not to enjoy?
7. Vegas has the best strip clubs in America
JUST DO IT
8. The Vegas Effect
Remember, no one REALLY lives in Vegas…and tourists are always more prone for one night stands as opposed to local natives. Why? Because it’s exciting, daring, and fun.
9. Don’t forget the 4 questions to SNL
This actually works a lot better there, I found.
10. Eat your vegetables…
Nothing is more sexy than a man who loves his vegetables.
AND HERE IS YOUR BONUS:
11. If you’re looking for drugs, late night, on the bridge the connects the NYC Hotel and the Excaliber. Dealers usually hang out there.
Overall, guys, have fun. If you’re looking for any other fun places to check out while you’re there, I visited about all the casino’s, so I know where to go.
-DSmoothMike, Assist. to Dating Coach
D as in “Damn” Smooth as in “Butter” Mike as in “The Filippino lover!”
•“ I’ve been to one daygame meetup so far and really enjoyed it and benefited from it. The atmosphere was fun, supportive, and welcoming. CJ was very involved, gave a lot of personal attention and help, and was very encouraging and positive. His advice made sense, helpful, and was done in a simple and manageable way. In general CJ seemed to be a cool guy who really wants to help other men succeed in this area of life. I also enjoyed the camaraderie with Justin. It’s about a three plus hour round trip for me to Boston but I’ll definitely be going again because it’s worth it! ”
…I can just offer her my arm, and say: “Hey lets go see what adventure is in THAT room.” [private]
Even if she is with her friends I may say, “Hey I’m gonna borrow your friend for a minute.”
Look around the room/venue you are in. Find something cool tho check out. “OMG, look at that over there, let’s go check it out.” and take her hand & start walking. Here you are starting to do things a couple for the moments and can start exploring the nearby world around you as a couple, a team perspective.
Rather than the pressure of getting to know each other better, you can remove any pressure from her & she will learn about you and you about her along the way in more of an offhanded way. It’s a lot more fun & leads to a better rapport, making team memories in the process.
[private]One of the aspects that I see frequently happen during times of LMR is when I take a girl’s pants off. Maybe a moment or two later she slides them back up. I’ve learned a finesse that I would recommend practicing until your good. That is easily and smoothly taking girls clothes off so that they hardly notice while you are making out. They like it that way. They would rather have a guy who can smoothly take their bra off that they didn’t even notice because your hands were smooth and you are in the middle of making-out.
against the world that she saw her father when she was a kid. The best way to have a kid behaving the way you want is to [private] reward the good behaviors (on an erratic schedule) and to ignore the bad ones.
Both kids and adults operate on the same principle. Every adult on this planet was once a child. Reward the good behaviors, yet erratically. The absolute worst punishment for the bad behaviors is to ignore them. Almost everybody has heard a story of a child who would repeatedly have bad behavior just to get the attention that it would bring them. Reward the good/ignore the bad.
When a woman I am with this playful and flirty, I am playful and flirty back. If she decides to take on a bitchy attitude, I decide to find something else to do or something else to focus my attention on. Of course if ignoring the behaviors does not lessen a particular one, then some firm words might be needed but I can assure you from experience, those cases are rare. Usually, for most everything the ignore/reward system is always the most effective.[/private]
They get so lonely because average guys are too scared to talk to them. The doors are wide open, please walk through and be a welcome guest. It is so fun to be friendly isn’t it? And think about this: why do you think those hot girls spent so much time and money getting the finest clothes, perfecting their makeup, and having a great hairstyle — doing what they can to be sexy at that?