Conversation Article 1: Demonstrating Higher Value (DHV)
You cannot brag about yourself. Bragging is demonstrating lower value (DLV), it shows that you are overly cocky, and it just makes it look like you’re trying way to hard to pick them up. However, there is a way of demonstrating higher value (DHV) without bragging about yourself.
One way to DVH your self is by[private] story telling. True stories about your self can create a picture of what it is like to be in your life. When you tell stories about your self, this is demonstrating who and what you are as a person.
Here is some other ways to DHV yourself:
-Being the protector of loved ones
-Being the leader among men
-Being preselected by women
-Being willing to talk about emotions
-Being non needy or outcome dependent
-Not being emotionally affected
-Being socially aware or intelligence
-Doing things that “suitors” wouldn’t do
-Having a strong frame of mind
-Knowing interesting things
-Stimulating a woman’s emotions
-Being socially in demand
-Being able to emotionally correct
-Having a sense of humor
Now there is one thing that men make a mistake of: Not talking about your ex girlfriend. It’s one thing to talk NICE things about your ex, and another thing to BAD talk about your ex. Talking nice things about your ex shows that you are not being emotionally affected by the break up and that women are preselecting you. You can also talk about your chick friends as well to build on the comfort ability and that women are preselecting you.
Having access to resources is another way to DHV your self. Among your family and friends, you got resources to all kinds. So it’s a good idea to know what your friends and family do for a living, because who knows?…they might be useful.
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