…her opinion now & again
Most guys sit there and try to impress the new girls they are talking to.
Girls can see through this like it is[private] a neon sign.
Stay strong in all of your values and opinions expressed, regardless if she disagrees. i hear guys switching their opinions to match the girl’s and try to build rapport on this.
Girls are incredibly socially intelligent and can see right through this. You are boring her and she finds that sort of behavior to be the opposite of attractive.
AND do not try and qualify your opinion.
I have seen more than once a girl use their contradictory opinion just as a test to then come right around to my way of thinking.
Ex.
Me: I thought Pirates of Caribbean was a great movie.
Her: I thought it was a stupid movie.
Now At this point I have seen numerous guys change their opinion to match the girls and hopefully gain rapport from this. It doesn’t happen that way. Instead I stay firm in my belief in whatever it is and explain how I came to the conclusion.
Me: I thought Pirates of Caribbean was a great movie.
Her: I thought it was a stupid movie.
Me: ya, I think Johnny Deppp is an incredible actor. he captured that character better than anybody I can think of. he even loooked like he had a hint of crazy underneath it all.
On top of that some of the scenery was absolutely gorgeous. The Boats were beautiful, the sunsets,,,and the cat & mouse he played with that girl was very endearing..
Her: Ya I though it was a really good movie too.
I just gave you an example but on more than one occasion I see girl listening to the reasons I have come to my conclusions and then side with me, regardless of what their previos answer was.
That is what told me it must be a chick test of some sort. After seeing guys get weak and change their opionions to match the girls, it seems like they sometimes say things to test your sincerity and to see your strength.
A few nights ago I was listing in to the conversation of a couple that was sitting next to me at the bar. The guy mentioned his one of his favorite drinks was a Mai Tai and the girl said:
Her: “I hate those. My dad loves them them. Do you like them?”
He then went on to qualify what he was he saying: “Well it depends on where you get one…”
I was screaming in my head for him to be strong. A. girls will have opposing viewpoints to test the man’s strength and the sincerity of what he is saying.
B. Girls are attracted to guys with similar qualities to those they say in their dad, even if they say they don’t like it. It triggers an internal subconscious attraction of what they think an ideal man/mate should be, based on how they grew up to learn what the world is about.
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