[private]One of the aspects that I see frequently happen during times of LMR is when I take a girl’s pants off. Maybe a moment or two later she slides them back up. I’ve learned a finesse that I would recommend practicing until your good. That is easily and smoothly taking girls clothes off so that they hardly notice while you are making out. They like it that way. They would rather have a guy who can smoothly take their bra off that they didn’t even notice because your hands were smooth and you are in the middle of making-out.
In the first split second that I see her pulling her pants back up, what I do is to capture that frame. I take over and I may even push her hands away as I pull her pants all the way up, reset them, and button them too. I think a few things happens by capturing this frame. She sees that in that moment I agree that she should have her pants on and believe things should stop. I’m not like every other guy who try so hard to keep things to continue. I know I can get laid, or have action on another time. Just because it doesn’t happen now is no big deal to me.
But by taking that control is showing her you don’t really want her that much actually causes her to want you much more.
Once I noticed that a girl is pulling her pants back up, I take control, pulling her pants back up, zipper fly, button her waistband, redo her belt and whatever it takes. I have the strength and discipline of a man, I don’t either sex, and a huge part of her wanting me is the fact that girls want so much to be wanted. It will actually take huge steps to do what they can to increase a man’s desire for them. Once they feel that it’s not as strong as they guessed, they want to figure out how to increase the volume of it.