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Be the challenge, hard to get

Posted by on March 28, 2012 1,492 comments
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Be a challenge, play hard to get.

Talk to her for a few minutes then walk away and do something else (this is key when [private] you see she is at a high point because of your interaction.

This keeps her wanting more. You can make her want what you have, what you are. Give her a little and then tease her a bit.

Do not make anything easy to get. Stay mysterious.

There is no need to answer questions about work so early. Be vague, especially if you have a really good answer. The most confident people never need to brag. Never give a woman a direct answer.

Play with her a little bit. Answer questions with questions. Get her to commit to something. If she complains or doesn’t like something, turn it up and give it back the way you would to our little sister.

Never give a woman exactly what  she asks for. Always send mixed signals. Tell her “let’s be friends” at random times to show her she is in danger of getting stuck in your ‘friend-zone’ and nothing else.

Be unpredictable. Keep mixing it up and changing the patterns. Be distinctive, not boring. As far as showing your interest, take two steps forward then one step back. That would be two steps that indicate your interest to her, with a separate single one to indicate you’re not interested.

Keep up the tension. Like playing poker, always raise & call her bluff. You can lead and move forward very confidently. There is no need to apologize, act apologetic or insecure. Don not try to get any approval or look like you are trying to impress people, especially girls. Softies are for the dryer[/private]

Tease her over and over again, question from student in Kenya :)

Posted by on March 25, 2012 433 comments
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day game is all I need Cj inbox me =]

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Blina Ventos well I’m successful as I learnt a lot from different pua’s the thing is I want to be the first Master Pick-Up Artist in Kenya, A Dating coach..I’m gonna post my video soon on you tube I’ll let you know.thanks coach =]
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Blina Ventos how are you gonna help me on this!?and I sarged a chick,number closed and we getting along well she told me she had sex only once we were at my place romancing and all that but when I reached down there her clit is tight man I think am gonna hurt her help c.j =]
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Cj Clark Piona On that, go slow, and …keep teasing….keep holding off until she she is pulling you inside of her…keep teasing then too…only insert 1/2 then pul out…she will be getting so hott and be aching to have you inside oif her…let me see if I can sift through my writings to give you detailed instructions I wrote on this
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Cj Clark Piona www.getherchasingyou.com had over a thousand posts, so look through the tags and categories for related, sex, sexy, sexual, teasing, orgasm,

It is VERY easy to live excellent
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Remember my friend, the only difference between dreams and reality is a plan.

Posted by on March 25, 2012 1,406 comments
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Cj Clark Piona You can make whatever you dream of happen as turn within your life, full force…and if you appreciate every little success along the way…each piece and part that comes to you, it seems to come in a flourish of over ten-fold than ever expected possible…
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Cj Clark Piona that is how it has been for me anyways…realizing the beginnings of all of this started for me in fullest force, last spring, February/March 2010 or so…
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Cj Clark Piona then completely exploded in never-ending waterfall of all I had dreamed of in amounts that bring my to the uncertainty even in emotion, to laugh or cry or shout at the sky HUGE THANK YOU’s to all of the universal higher powers, what I know to be God of my universe, our universe…in fuller force than I ever thought possible. Thank you., and Thank you too Joni. Comments like yours remind me of all of the wondrous windfalls to be more saturated in them, immersed in the feelings
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Cj Clark Piona of appreciation and MORE than my ever-ready nature to share everything and anything I have learned along these lines…to show someone else to have all of this is what makes me feel complete in my purpose…and the sperm who won the race to the egg, that third of a century ago. Thankful. :)

the mention of coffee with a guy led to talks of stripper-game

Posted by on January 14, 2012 1,211 comments
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Guy was at level of not opening when we started working together a short time before this phot0

Quote:In reference to the mention of coffee with a guy

Yes, I did that because it was specifically stripper related.

& I am available to talk stripper game with anybody who asks for nothing over coffee.

Why don’t I write an e-book or soemthing about it?

You see, in all practicality, the way I see it, is that it is not really a market commercially anyways (since logically very few guys really want that) but it is it is a personal love of mine. Maybe I’ll get around to writing about one day.

Willingly, eagerly and for no charge at all I enjoy talking & teaching about what I have learned about strippers, specificaly strippers.

Once u learn to disqualify the issue-girls quick enough, all the rest is cake & they are really adventerous girls.

The type you can say, last minute, “Hey let’s jump on a plane and Vegas this weekend!’ and she’ll go along with that.

I might even feel over-boastful about sharing how I had 3 strippers ready for after party while on DSM’s bday with D-O Double-G, Dean, (other guy I forget his handle) if I wasn’t willing to explain the different things done to actually make this happen.

Two of the guys were too drunk to notice, but DSM & Dean both saw first hand application.

lovingly, I still have contact with one of the 3 from that night & also have been seeing a years ago, previous ex-stripper gf of mine that I re-started a few weeks ago.

Why don’t I write posts about it or type up an e-book or something?

That is because I don’t see it as valuable time spent on my part, typing like that.

If there was a guy who came to me & said he would type it up for me so he could learn it in the process, maybe I’d do it. I dunno.

In reality, I probably wouldn’t tho cause it’s boring, just dictation/typing.

I’d rather hang out & talk over coffee or go hang out at the strip club together.,. Ok, there it is, if he covers my strip club cover etc, he can learn in the field with real live strippers

Still in contact with the pro-photographer girl from Maryland (I closed even with a few terrible stripper-game mistakes) who was at Mardi Gras just to strip for the week. The is a draft of that time written somewhere in my computer’s drafts, I lose locations of things in there all the time, some times for months, some years, some I remeber writing but still can’t find in there

Oh ya, MarylindStripper/PhotoHB, I still love her a tiny bit, love to see her photos of her & her neices/nephews.

Must be a curse Wink or something, I stopped a total 10 in the Park St station recently. We connect, set up date & trade numbers then to find out what she does for a living is strip. Maybe she first withheld it thinking it wouild scare me away.

Not a chance though, she’s been great offering to help me read script on top of all else.

http://www.meetup.com/FREE-Dating-Coaching/photos/all_photos/?photoAlbumId=2657901

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Women

Posted by on December 23, 2011 236 comments

[private]Women.

I love the way the look, I love the way they smell. I love those times when two dimples happen above a girls waist.

Some girls have the sweetest voices, others have the sexiest voices. I like how they’re humble and graceful and usually polite.

AND I totally DO LOVE hearing about how they look at the world, been that way since I was 5.[/private]

“Dedication is what I would bring to the learning table ” ~Student who inquired about next Vegas event

Posted by on December 6, 2011 67 comments

“Hey It was great hanging out. I learned A LOT. I learned that I worry too much about what is going to happen ad how things are going to play out. The problem with this line of thinking is in many ways it prevents anything from actually ahppening. Also if something was to get started… how am I to know if its going too play out like the fantasy that is going on in my head.

Im too emotional way too quick and keep thinking about what ifs. I think If I were to focus on just chatting with a girl and not caring about an outcome or thinking of one I should be fine. I need to let go of how I have seen things play out in the past and roll int the future.

There are lots of things you have said tonight that Im hanging onto, like “You owe her as much as the time you have spent with her”. Im going to be focusing on that and what kind of mood and attitude I need to have in order to achieve talking to someone without thinking too much.

Another one of my issues is after I get the convo going… as I did tonight with Amy, I end up running out of crap to talk about.

A fix for this would be to figure out what im going to be talking about beforehand. I like what you said about get them talking and just sit back and let them talk and do all the listening.

I need to get out and practice more.

Keep me posted about what your up to….. also, Im going to look into Vegas for the weekend of the 29th. That would be a fucking blast.” ~Lestat138

About a guy many coaches called hopeless, I figured out what would get him progress:

Posted by on December 6, 2011 245 comments

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RE: Clear violation of the rules

(11-01-2011 06:26 PM)Serendipitous Wrote: Achilles will not find the help he needs in this community.

He’s just as guilty of antagonizing and breeding negativity as anyone else.

I move to vote him out of the community based on these reasons.

HE WILL AND HE HAS!!!

PERSONALLY I HAVE WORKED WITH HIM, from a difference in two sessions.

First was at Night GSF, where I too felt he was hopeless, and a man of suckage..

To ask for futher help like he was demanding what he expected due to him

even without any regard to help been given him by me so far.

I wrote a post about this I saw, if I can find where I post it I will put link here [URL]

He has difference to other guys like well do.

Once I learned his differences, I worked with him again, Daytime.

Through 4 sets I saw his dramatic increase in progress so well, I was thankful he asked to be video’d.

From set 1 to set 4 you can see him improving in each one based on feedback to be a completely different level of progress,, signifigantly noticed by him, and viewer and most importantly the girls he was talking to.

They became warm to him much quicker in the 4th set than the first set based on the significant difference in how he was structuring things, with video to remind him what got him those differences.

Sure we are 3.4 billion different men on this planet, each with a snowflake to our imprint.

Serendipitous Wrote:He’s just as guilty of antagonizing and breeding negativity as anyone else.

That is absolutely not true & I will have credible, variable reference to this point I make. Either quoted here or directly on the thread he is in.

Check the both if you would like to fact-check with me.

Serendipitous Wrote:I move to vote him out of the community based on these reasons.

Absolutely NOT! (Yes you may vote whatever you want, I was just stating my wholehearted disagreement with, and I will explain why)

This is a mirror image of the newbie at Night GSF (of months ago) that you moved in to his set to cockblock him and highjack set.

Your first rational to me as I asked about it, was that the girl was eye-fucking you and wanted you..
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Does that interpretable claim seem like accurate enough reason to walk over, get in man’s set, and gum it up for him?

When I stated what I observed from an outside perspective, and regardless if what you claimed was true (although you didn’t even hook her as long as he did before you ejected him) you further that by telling me: “Well I just don’t like him”

Not only did you disregard my comments that those moves and motivations were unacceptable, so did some of the 4 other lair guys who were at Lir with us that night state to you.

After several of us were in mini-pow-wows trying to figure out the nature & rational of the moves.

With different members who were present, I was in conversations…and then from one party or the other I heard about other conversations about this same incident. (I have yet to say who, but that reason comes up later in this post. )

I continuously tried to understand what you didn’t like about this newbie since you still gave me no concrete or any reason.

Regardless of what I spent times in discussions with you, other lair guys present when that happened, and my personal reflection…

I did those things out of friendship

The thing is., regardless if I spent the time doing it for you, it STILL DOES NOT make the action right.

or acceptable from a person with a leadership standpoint.

Guys have repeatedly muffle their complaints about you out of fear of losing their membership here.

Can’t wonder too long why since some things are stated as immediate punishment without warning.

A guy under that M.O. has no chance to slip up & make a mistake then learn from it to correct his future actions..

He feels as if he walks on eggshells, and might lose something very valuable by doing something he didn’t know was wrong.er to make an judgement, or a statement of absolute before I am sure, so far the only similarity between that guy at Lir months ago & Achilles is their culture.

This is another example of why I vehemently oppose, a ‘no-mistake policy’ within the Symposium.

Men make mistakes

Men come to this group for self improvement on a variey of levels
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Mistakes are some of the best lessons available.

For a policy, when it comes to mistakes

Let’s take breaking a rule that is written in the Symposium rules.

Every guy reads that at a different amount of careful thought through it.

Some terms used go undefined within rules. (see my post on Flaming for excellent example)

So then with a definition, each guy may make his own definition that may not agree with what is meant in rules, or how other guys interpret term (see Achilles post of Plowing) Although he had credible references to his point, guys were opposing his point, arguing what is meant, that didn’t know what the term means

[THIS POST WILL BE ADDED TO BY ME AND WILL REQUIRE A RE-READ BY MEMBERS IF IT HASN'T BEEN REPLIED TO BEFORE i FINISH MY ELABORATION OF THIS TOPIC. THANK YOU]

Sry I am only able to get to these boards once or less per day.
If for ANY reason u need/want or just would like to contact me

PLEASE feel free to to use this: (Cellphone call/text 857-544-1943 24hrs) or cj@thebostondatingcoach.com goes directly to my phone.

ANNOUNCEMENT: DSmoothMike has been signed on as Assitant Dating Coach for the Boston area!!!

Posted by on November 11, 2011 190 comments

“Every time you step out of your comfort zone, it gets a little bit bigger, so keep doing THAT!” ~C.J. “Silly Rabbit” Siege

NOW Read THIS:Send all your props, congrats to him on his facebook page & also check out the secret diaries of Mr. Smooth at : DAMN SMOOTH

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Better than smooth, smoother than butter.

“Seige, for the record – brilliant stuff” -Client

Posted by on October 26, 2011 622 comments

Seeker Wrote:

Seige, for the record – brilliant stuff. Thanks for sharing. As someone climbing (and perhaps at time struggling) up the first foothills it is neat to see how someone climbs the whole mountain.

I also have a new respect for everything that goes into the whole process, after having banged away at things for a while. After you showed me you can open any group I would have talked to those girls. But I have been horrible about escalation and counted tons of subsequent places in your tale where I would have let things die.

[Your] post showed me just how much you have to lead and persist to close the deal. So again, kudos and thanks for another lesson .

Peace out,
Seeker

Always my pleasure Seeker. My biggest love in helping the guys that come to me directly, is seeing and hearing the marvelous results in their own game. That is what gets the high-5s going off in my head and why I continue to do what I do.

“Las Vegas is the Disney World for Boys who become Men with a better taste of the REAL Pleasures in Life.”

Posted by on October 24, 2011 1,398 comments

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Men,

Las Vegas is the world’s adult Disney World. So image being there with a Dating coach guiding you along…scratch that, Image being there with 3-4 coaches!

There is a mansion in Vegas that is creating a buzz in this Seduction “Community”. Yes I said Mansion, 5 bedrooms and baths, fireplaces…yes more than one, POOL! and more!

“Hey hunny, great talking to you, you should come to the after party, AT OUR HOUSE, with a POOL, and Jacuzzi!!” ~C.J. “The Siege” to girls at team pull with JerseyBoy in LA.

Read that quote over again.

Now remeber it. Once you are rolling along in conversation with some new girls, drop that into conversation to see some girl’s eyes light up!

The from there all you have to do is work out logistics to move you all back to the Place wwhen sexy fun is abbout to ahppen.

You see, Siege is there with a single fun outcome in mind that will prioritize the others throughout what is going on. Sure He’ll be enjoying the rest ov=f Vegas, with a particular radar on.

And ALSO rememer, what he is looking to have he gets so once one girl in the group is making out, that feeling transfers to the girl you are talking to with him as your wing.

Then she want’s to making out, this increasing your ability to escalate with her ENPORMOUSLY!!

Then once back to the pad, the girl you are talking to hears/sees sexy time going on with C.J. and his girl. She too want to be having sexy-time since the mere thought of hearing her friend enjoying the pleasures she wants, willl raise her buying temperature like you’d never believe…that is unless you have singed up foro the Vegas Event

This is not your everyday meet-up or weekend boot camp, you and the coaches DO NOT part ways for hours after the outing to your respective hotel rooms. You get a text from a girl after the night is done, there is a coach right there ready to help!

This is a project house weekend in the city that parties 24/7! on Halloween weekend no less!

This isn’t just locals, this is everyone from every where, flying/driving in to party and be naughty!

Guys this is a chance to get out and broaden your horizons! Travel and bring home stories to your friends and even women in your home town. SO when she asks have you traveled your response can be something other than “Yes with my mom and dad, to Disney world, when i was FIVE!

The problem in this are of self-improvement is that there is too many who want to read material for days or months on end and never strp out of their home or their OR their comfort zone then go out with others who do that same thing, and it ends up being “The Blind leading the Blind”

Lets put a stop to that and hit Vegas with coaches and make some memories to last a life time!

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Vegas recommendations
There is some people on this forum heading to Vegas, so I thought I’d put in my recommendations and what I’ve learned:

1. Girls at tables won’t talk to you that much.

Well, if it’s tables like Craps or Roulette, they got time to talk after their turn, or during their turn, but when it comes down to card games, they would prefer not to talk, but think up ways on how to win. You can make quick and witty comments to grab her attention then pull her to a different table, but conversation wise, no- they will not talk to you.

2. Girls are easier at the slot machines.

Slot machines are designed so you can take your time with them. There is no pressure or rush to do anything. So they can stop whatever they are doing and talk to you, or play and talk at the same time.

3. Pull them from different parts of the casino.

The casinos have a lot of things to look at, and places to be. Such as bars, clubs, slot machines, tables, or even watching a game together. Pull them to different areas to create small intimate moments that you can expand on later.

4. Pull them to different casinos.

It’s like making small intimate moments inside the casino, you are now making a larger memory to help raise the attraction and comfort. Also, there is open liquor laws in Vegas. Share a drink outside by bridge that connects the Excaliber to the NYC Hotel, or watch the pirate show at the Treasure Island hotel for free.

5. Shopping Malls inside the casino and the Vegas Strip are awesome places to meet women too.

It’s like Day GSF, except you can pull them into the bedroom without leaving your hotel/casino (well, depending on where you are. I recommend Ceasars Palace. A lot of high class and beautiful girls there.)

6. Wednesday night (or was it Thursday?) at the Planet Hollywood Hotel/casino

Strippers on poles and half naked women everywhere. What’s not to enjoy?

7. Vegas has the best strip clubs in America

JUST DO IT

8. The Vegas Effect

Remember, no one REALLY lives in Vegas…and tourists are always more prone for one night stands as opposed to local natives. Why? Because it’s exciting, daring, and fun.

9. Don’t forget the 4 questions to SNL

This actually works a lot better there, I found.

10. Eat your vegetables…

Nothing is more sexy than a man who loves his vegetables.

AND HERE IS YOUR BONUS:

11. If you’re looking for drugs, late night, on the bridge the connects the NYC Hotel and the Excaliber. Dealers usually hang out there.

Overall, guys, have fun. If you’re looking for any other fun places to check out while you’re there, I visited about all the casino’s, so I know where to go.

-DSmoothMike, Assist. to Dating Coach
D as in “Damn” Smooth as in “Butter” Mike as in “The Filippino lover!”

Life is at wonderful places

Posted by on October 4, 2011 3 comments

& actively growing to even better places than I ever dreamed possible. SO incredibly thankful & will help anyone who asks, no matter what.!! :) :) :)