me: my friend is having a small party tonight and i have a girl coming with me
how shouls i go about the nigh
im good at night game at big parties where its mostly grinding but im not so confident about a small house party
hey so she just asked me if she can bring friends
she has an annoying cockblock friend
whats a good way of telling her she cant?
cj: ur friends party, ur allowed to bring 1 guest
me: duh…
thanks
idk why i walways miss the simple stuff
she said ohh well i promised my firend ill go out with her tonight
cj: if you want her 2 come with cockblcok friend… tell her you’ll check with ur friend to make an axception. then wait a bit and tell her only one friend… that is if u want cockblock. myself, i would blow it off as in ok we’ll make it another night… to girl than later tell her what a phenomenal fun she missed. shows take her or leave her attitude and that she needs to make special accomodations 4 u which girls will do once you get their attarction/rap
me: she actually menioned another friend who im good with and shouldnt be a paroblem
cj: generally its best to stand your ground
she may be testing yoy if she sees u switch original stand u may come across as too supplicating… which is not attractive to girls
once i made a statement i stick to it
she then knows she has to accomodate to guy (what girls like to do) not guy aaccomomdating to her( girls find unattractive and too needy)… sticking toguns now may lead to more deeper attraction next time… u have girls all over your life. if sheis lucky enough for a chance to hang with u she learns to accomodate to what offers u give her
me: thanks
im at this girls place we were studying and now were watching a movie
i tried to escalate but she went to the kitchen and then went to sit on another couch
what can i do now
cj: well, your there now?
me: yes
cj: have u escalated before w/ her?
me: i tried she was ok with itfor a little but then she went to the kitchen and sat on another couch when she cme back
cj: sometimes i may say hey come sit here ( happily and patting place next to you) i want to show you somethinglike palm reading…
me: idk plam reading
what else can i use
cj: take her hand she her one of the lines on her palm and tell her it is a river. then pointide of the rivertell her there is an apple tree on that side of the river. then pint to the other side (you are holding her hand in yours this whole time)
and tell her bob and sue are on the other side of the river
then ask her how do bob and sue get across the frozen river to pick an apple
she’ll probably say they’ll walk the river is frozen
then you say if the river is frozen then its winter and there are no apples
you both can laught at thesilly joke but now you’ve been holding her hand for some time put it down after the joke but she should be morewarmed up to slow escalation at least off handed affection
me: i di that and she didnt find it funny and went back to her seat
cj: we’ll practice your deliverywhen we meetup again. she may be in ana off mood but who knows. if she was fine, then something crossed her mind to change things…
depending on her mood, i might tellher that she seems a little stressed, she should sit on floor in fornt of me between legs so i can rub her shoulders
like everything, may work or may not but u never know till u try. are u guys talking about stuff… do u know to seduce in conversation
me: no how do i do that
cj: first i like to bring up an imagination topic, to free up both of our minds if you couldwake tmrw anywhere in the world where would it be
then she tells me. i ask her why what about the place drew herto pick it
then sensually talk about all the details sights sounds smells of foodfeelings of temperaturetasted of foods theream imagination plane then maybe play in her imagination
ok if we were there tomorrow what the first thing we could do then talk about exploring the placetogether
the ni might say you know those fleeting moments when you feel truely alive while looking at herknowingly with a smirk
i love these moments
do you remember a time that everything was absoloutly prfect and you felt on top of the world
then id ask her to decribe that time while off handedly touching her while i was asking her for detailsadding on to her descriptions
id watch her face while she talks… not even so much on the eyes but roaming around her face her shoulders her neck then back to her face
every so often while she is talking i would look at her face stop my gaze lick my own as i imagined kissing her then back to listening
every time i spoke it would be lowand deep words spoken slowly elongating the vowels pronouncng carefully even when i was speakingi might gaze around her face pasue on her lips and pause mid sentence of what i was saying lick my bottom lip then keep talking
me: tha nks
her roomates just showed up so imight need to hold off on that till tomorrow
cj: that might have been why she held off to prevent things getting too hot then having her roommated walk in
girls do that if she guessed when they’s be back