Category Archives: Daygame

Reviews of coaching sessions:

Posted by on June 28, 2012 368 comments

“ Great time, I think going out like that in a group on a regular basis is the only way to improve “cold approaches”. CJ has been very helpful in providing feedback and giving “missions” for the night. ”

— Andrey

“ I spent a year trying websites and a very expensive matchmaking service, with very poor results. These services promise to take the anxiety and effort out of finding women, but I got extremely few responses from the websites and extremely few matches from the matchmaking service. And in those very few cases where I actually met the girl, she didn’t like me and I didn’t like her. This was true even for the very expensive matchmaking service. The websites and matchmaking service might work for some people, but in my case, I think there is no quick and simple way to eliminate the anxiety and work involved with finding women. I should have joined this meet up group a year ago instead of spending all that effort and money on websites and the matchmaking service. ”

— Su-Ming Wu

“ I’ve been to one daygame meetup so far and really enjoyed it and benefited from it. The atmosphere was fun, supportive, and welcoming. CJ was very involved, gave a lot of personal attention and help, and was very encouraging and positive. His advice made sense, seemed helpful, and was done in a simple and manageable way. In general CJ seemed to be a cool guy who really wants to help other men succeed in this area of life. I also enjoyed the camaraderie with Justin. It’s about a three plus hour round trip for me to Boston but I’ll definitely be going again because it’s worth it! :) ”

— Kyle

“ I think this meetup group is fantastic, CJ is very experienced and helpful, I am looking forward to the upcoming meetings. ”

— Justin

“ CJ really knows what he is talking about. He helped me overcome approach anxiety and thought me how to hang in there even when things seemed lost. ”

— Michael

“ Despite having been to only one session, I really enjoyed the meet up with CJ (the organizer). He definitely has a lot to offer, so I can’t wait till the next sessions! ”

— Fawkes

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Posted by on January 7, 2012 147 comments
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About a guy many coaches called hopeless, I figured out what would get him progress:

Posted by on December 6, 2011 245 comments

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RE: Clear violation of the rules

(11-01-2011 06:26 PM)Serendipitous Wrote: Achilles will not find the help he needs in this community.

He’s just as guilty of antagonizing and breeding negativity as anyone else.

I move to vote him out of the community based on these reasons.

HE WILL AND HE HAS!!!

PERSONALLY I HAVE WORKED WITH HIM, from a difference in two sessions.

First was at Night GSF, where I too felt he was hopeless, and a man of suckage..

To ask for futher help like he was demanding what he expected due to him

even without any regard to help been given him by me so far.

I wrote a post about this I saw, if I can find where I post it I will put link here [URL]

He has difference to other guys like well do.

Once I learned his differences, I worked with him again, Daytime.

Through 4 sets I saw his dramatic increase in progress so well, I was thankful he asked to be video’d.

From set 1 to set 4 you can see him improving in each one based on feedback to be a completely different level of progress,, signifigantly noticed by him, and viewer and most importantly the girls he was talking to.

They became warm to him much quicker in the 4th set than the first set based on the significant difference in how he was structuring things, with video to remind him what got him those differences.

Sure we are 3.4 billion different men on this planet, each with a snowflake to our imprint.

Serendipitous Wrote:He’s just as guilty of antagonizing and breeding negativity as anyone else.

That is absolutely not true & I will have credible, variable reference to this point I make. Either quoted here or directly on the thread he is in.

Check the both if you would like to fact-check with me.

Serendipitous Wrote:I move to vote him out of the community based on these reasons.

Absolutely NOT! (Yes you may vote whatever you want, I was just stating my wholehearted disagreement with, and I will explain why)

This is a mirror image of the newbie at Night GSF (of months ago) that you moved in to his set to cockblock him and highjack set.

Your first rational to me as I asked about it, was that the girl was eye-fucking you and wanted you..
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Does that interpretable claim seem like accurate enough reason to walk over, get in man’s set, and gum it up for him?

When I stated what I observed from an outside perspective, and regardless if what you claimed was true (although you didn’t even hook her as long as he did before you ejected him) you further that by telling me: “Well I just don’t like him”

Not only did you disregard my comments that those moves and motivations were unacceptable, so did some of the 4 other lair guys who were at Lir with us that night state to you.

After several of us were in mini-pow-wows trying to figure out the nature & rational of the moves.

With different members who were present, I was in conversations…and then from one party or the other I heard about other conversations about this same incident. (I have yet to say who, but that reason comes up later in this post. )

I continuously tried to understand what you didn’t like about this newbie since you still gave me no concrete or any reason.

Regardless of what I spent times in discussions with you, other lair guys present when that happened, and my personal reflection…

I did those things out of friendship

The thing is., regardless if I spent the time doing it for you, it STILL DOES NOT make the action right.

or acceptable from a person with a leadership standpoint.

Guys have repeatedly muffle their complaints about you out of fear of losing their membership here.

Can’t wonder too long why since some things are stated as immediate punishment without warning.

A guy under that M.O. has no chance to slip up & make a mistake then learn from it to correct his future actions..

He feels as if he walks on eggshells, and might lose something very valuable by doing something he didn’t know was wrong.er to make an judgement, or a statement of absolute before I am sure, so far the only similarity between that guy at Lir months ago & Achilles is their culture.

This is another example of why I vehemently oppose, a ‘no-mistake policy’ within the Symposium.

Men make mistakes

Men come to this group for self improvement on a variey of levels
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Mistakes are some of the best lessons available.

For a policy, when it comes to mistakes

Let’s take breaking a rule that is written in the Symposium rules.

Every guy reads that at a different amount of careful thought through it.

Some terms used go undefined within rules. (see my post on Flaming for excellent example)

So then with a definition, each guy may make his own definition that may not agree with what is meant in rules, or how other guys interpret term (see Achilles post of Plowing) Although he had credible references to his point, guys were opposing his point, arguing what is meant, that didn’t know what the term means

[THIS POST WILL BE ADDED TO BY ME AND WILL REQUIRE A RE-READ BY MEMBERS IF IT HASN'T BEEN REPLIED TO BEFORE i FINISH MY ELABORATION OF THIS TOPIC. THANK YOU]

Sry I am only able to get to these boards once or less per day.
If for ANY reason u need/want or just would like to contact me

PLEASE feel free to to use this: (Cellphone call/text 857-544-1943 24hrs) or cj@thebostondatingcoach.com goes directly to my phone.

“Las Vegas is the Disney World for Boys who become Men with a better taste of the REAL Pleasures in Life.”

Posted by on October 24, 2011 1,398 comments

Event Details

Men,

Las Vegas is the world’s adult Disney World. So image being there with a Dating coach guiding you along…scratch that, Image being there with 3-4 coaches!

There is a mansion in Vegas that is creating a buzz in this Seduction “Community”. Yes I said Mansion, 5 bedrooms and baths, fireplaces…yes more than one, POOL! and more!

“Hey hunny, great talking to you, you should come to the after party, AT OUR HOUSE, with a POOL, and Jacuzzi!!” ~C.J. “The Siege” to girls at team pull with JerseyBoy in LA.

Read that quote over again.

Now remeber it. Once you are rolling along in conversation with some new girls, drop that into conversation to see some girl’s eyes light up!

The from there all you have to do is work out logistics to move you all back to the Place wwhen sexy fun is abbout to ahppen.

You see, Siege is there with a single fun outcome in mind that will prioritize the others throughout what is going on. Sure He’ll be enjoying the rest ov=f Vegas, with a particular radar on.

And ALSO rememer, what he is looking to have he gets so once one girl in the group is making out, that feeling transfers to the girl you are talking to with him as your wing.

Then she want’s to making out, this increasing your ability to escalate with her ENPORMOUSLY!!

Then once back to the pad, the girl you are talking to hears/sees sexy time going on with C.J. and his girl. She too want to be having sexy-time since the mere thought of hearing her friend enjoying the pleasures she wants, willl raise her buying temperature like you’d never believe…that is unless you have singed up foro the Vegas Event

This is not your everyday meet-up or weekend boot camp, you and the coaches DO NOT part ways for hours after the outing to your respective hotel rooms. You get a text from a girl after the night is done, there is a coach right there ready to help!

This is a project house weekend in the city that parties 24/7! on Halloween weekend no less!

This isn’t just locals, this is everyone from every where, flying/driving in to party and be naughty!

Guys this is a chance to get out and broaden your horizons! Travel and bring home stories to your friends and even women in your home town. SO when she asks have you traveled your response can be something other than “Yes with my mom and dad, to Disney world, when i was FIVE!

The problem in this are of self-improvement is that there is too many who want to read material for days or months on end and never strp out of their home or their OR their comfort zone then go out with others who do that same thing, and it ends up being “The Blind leading the Blind”

Lets put a stop to that and hit Vegas with coaches and make some memories to last a life time!

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Vegas recommendations
There is some people on this forum heading to Vegas, so I thought I’d put in my recommendations and what I’ve learned:

1. Girls at tables won’t talk to you that much.

Well, if it’s tables like Craps or Roulette, they got time to talk after their turn, or during their turn, but when it comes down to card games, they would prefer not to talk, but think up ways on how to win. You can make quick and witty comments to grab her attention then pull her to a different table, but conversation wise, no- they will not talk to you.

2. Girls are easier at the slot machines.

Slot machines are designed so you can take your time with them. There is no pressure or rush to do anything. So they can stop whatever they are doing and talk to you, or play and talk at the same time.

3. Pull them from different parts of the casino.

The casinos have a lot of things to look at, and places to be. Such as bars, clubs, slot machines, tables, or even watching a game together. Pull them to different areas to create small intimate moments that you can expand on later.

4. Pull them to different casinos.

It’s like making small intimate moments inside the casino, you are now making a larger memory to help raise the attraction and comfort. Also, there is open liquor laws in Vegas. Share a drink outside by bridge that connects the Excaliber to the NYC Hotel, or watch the pirate show at the Treasure Island hotel for free.

5. Shopping Malls inside the casino and the Vegas Strip are awesome places to meet women too.

It’s like Day GSF, except you can pull them into the bedroom without leaving your hotel/casino (well, depending on where you are. I recommend Ceasars Palace. A lot of high class and beautiful girls there.)

6. Wednesday night (or was it Thursday?) at the Planet Hollywood Hotel/casino

Strippers on poles and half naked women everywhere. What’s not to enjoy?

7. Vegas has the best strip clubs in America

JUST DO IT

8. The Vegas Effect

Remember, no one REALLY lives in Vegas…and tourists are always more prone for one night stands as opposed to local natives. Why? Because it’s exciting, daring, and fun.

9. Don’t forget the 4 questions to SNL

This actually works a lot better there, I found.

10. Eat your vegetables…

Nothing is more sexy than a man who loves his vegetables.

AND HERE IS YOUR BONUS:

11. If you’re looking for drugs, late night, on the bridge the connects the NYC Hotel and the Excaliber. Dealers usually hang out there.

Overall, guys, have fun. If you’re looking for any other fun places to check out while you’re there, I visited about all the casino’s, so I know where to go.

-DSmoothMike, Assist. to Dating Coach
D as in “Damn” Smooth as in “Butter” Mike as in “The Filippino lover!”

Why ‘Three plus hour round trip’ to the weekly events I post is worth it

Posted by on October 15, 2011 622 comments

•“ I’ve been to one daygame meetup so far and really enjoyed it and benefited from it. The atmosphere was fun, supportive, and welcoming. CJ was very involved, gave a lot of personal attention and help, and was very encouraging and positive. His advice made sense, helpful, and was done in a simple and manageable way. In general CJ seemed to be a cool guy who really wants to help other men succeed in this area of life. I also enjoyed the camaraderie with Justin. It’s about a three plus hour round trip for me to Boston but I’ll definitely be going again because it’s worth it! :) ”

— Kyle on Oct 13, 2011.