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Reviews of coaching sessions:

Posted by on June 28, 2012 368 comments

“ Great time, I think going out like that in a group on a regular basis is the only way to improve “cold approaches”. CJ has been very helpful in providing feedback and giving “missions” for the night. ”

— Andrey

“ I spent a year trying websites and a very expensive matchmaking service, with very poor results. These services promise to take the anxiety and effort out of finding women, but I got extremely few responses from the websites and extremely few matches from the matchmaking service. And in those very few cases where I actually met the girl, she didn’t like me and I didn’t like her. This was true even for the very expensive matchmaking service. The websites and matchmaking service might work for some people, but in my case, I think there is no quick and simple way to eliminate the anxiety and work involved with finding women. I should have joined this meet up group a year ago instead of spending all that effort and money on websites and the matchmaking service. ”

— Su-Ming Wu

“ I’ve been to one daygame meetup so far and really enjoyed it and benefited from it. The atmosphere was fun, supportive, and welcoming. CJ was very involved, gave a lot of personal attention and help, and was very encouraging and positive. His advice made sense, seemed helpful, and was done in a simple and manageable way. In general CJ seemed to be a cool guy who really wants to help other men succeed in this area of life. I also enjoyed the camaraderie with Justin. It’s about a three plus hour round trip for me to Boston but I’ll definitely be going again because it’s worth it! :) ”

— Kyle

“ I think this meetup group is fantastic, CJ is very experienced and helpful, I am looking forward to the upcoming meetings. ”

— Justin

“ CJ really knows what he is talking about. He helped me overcome approach anxiety and thought me how to hang in there even when things seemed lost. ”

— Michael

“ Despite having been to only one session, I really enjoyed the meet up with CJ (the organizer). He definitely has a lot to offer, so I can’t wait till the next sessions! ”

— Fawkes

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“My daygame experience with CJ the Siege” Post from guy helped in field

Posted by on June 11, 2012 Comments Off

“”My daygame experience with CJ the Siege

Just this past Saturday I went out for daygame coaching with Siege. I have worked with CJ in the past and knew he has a great deal of value to offer, so when I found out he was doing FREE coaching I jumped at the opportunity.

When I arrived at Copley (got there late due to traffic from the Sox game) CJ was demonstrating for some newbies how to approach on the street using a simple opener. (If you want to know the opener, you will just have to ask CJ in person or PM him). The first time I tried it, on a two-set of black chicks, the target seemed warm but her friend pulled her away so I erroneously concluded the opener was bad.

Here is where the coaching came in handy. CJ pointed out that I used the opener just fine but that I paused for too long after the target reacted. He emphasized that you have to be ready to follow-up! So I lost the set not because there was inherently anything wrong with me, but simply because I didn’t keep the conversation flowing. This was simple, usable feedback that I was able to implement right way.

So within 1-2 more approaches of making the adjustment, I immediately got into an engaging 5-10 minute conversation with this cute lawyer chick as we walked up Boylston St. We then parted ways and I returned to Copley.

Another memorable set was a two-set right outside of a restaurant on Newbury St. CJ was observing me from just a few feet away and critiqued the entire set from beginning to end. At one point he even came into the set, showing me how to make natural conversation. Like so many men, I’ve struggled in this area and heavily rely on canned material and routines. CJ emphasized that I should listen more to what the girls are saying and even use that for material to talk about. For example, the girls had an accent so Siege asked them where they were from and worked conversation on that topic for a bit before transitioning to another topic.

I recall a street approach where I watched as CJ got a number-close from this pretty blond. It always helps to observe guys that know what they are doing in-field and then try to emulate them. It gives you a chance to see body language and how women react.

These are just a few examples of the sets that were opened. What I am learning is that simple adjustments in your game can make all the difference.

Now here is something interesting. Later on that evening, after me and Siege parted ways, I was on fire when it came to opening. Maybe it was because I was warmed up from doing the day-game but I must have opened in the neighborhood of 20-30 sets. I’ve been in this stuff for 2 years and have never opened that many sets in a single day! My wing even called me on Sunday to congratulate me, saying I was an approach machine.

Other things I learned-

FOR GODSAKE- JUST OPEN!! If you don’t open, ain’t shit going to happen. (We all hear this, but not everyone takes it to heart)
IF HER FRIENDS COME INTO THE SET, QUICKLY INTRODUCE YOURSELF TO THEM.

Bottom line: CJ’s coaching = results. I look forward to working and learning from this guy in the future. “”

Achilles

Tease her over and over again, question from student in Kenya :)

Posted by on March 25, 2012 433 comments
16-03-2012 01-06-17 AM

Blina Ventos
day game is all I need Cj inbox me =]

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Cj Clark Piona Post ur questions here & I will reply here :)
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Blina Ventos well I’m successful as I learnt a lot from different pua’s the thing is I want to be the first Master Pick-Up Artist in Kenya, A Dating coach..I’m gonna post my video soon on you tube I’ll let you know.thanks coach =]
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Blina Ventos how are you gonna help me on this!?and I sarged a chick,number closed and we getting along well she told me she had sex only once we were at my place romancing and all that but when I reached down there her clit is tight man I think am gonna hurt her help c.j =]
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Cj Clark Piona On that, go slow, and …keep teasing….keep holding off until she she is pulling you inside of her…keep teasing then too…only insert 1/2 then pul out…she will be getting so hott and be aching to have you inside oif her…let me see if I can sift through my writings to give you detailed instructions I wrote on this
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Cj Clark Piona www.getherchasingyou.com had over a thousand posts, so look through the tags and categories for related, sex, sexy, sexual, teasing, orgasm,

It is VERY easy to live excellent
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C.J. “The Siege” – Boston Dating Coach
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Remember my friend, the only difference between dreams and reality is a plan.

Posted by on March 25, 2012 1,406 comments
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Cj Clark Piona You can make whatever you dream of happen as turn within your life, full force…and if you appreciate every little success along the way…each piece and part that comes to you, it seems to come in a flourish of over ten-fold than ever expected possible…
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Cj Clark Piona that is how it has been for me anyways…realizing the beginnings of all of this started for me in fullest force, last spring, February/March 2010 or so…
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Cj Clark Piona then completely exploded in never-ending waterfall of all I had dreamed of in amounts that bring my to the uncertainty even in emotion, to laugh or cry or shout at the sky HUGE THANK YOU’s to all of the universal higher powers, what I know to be God of my universe, our universe…in fuller force than I ever thought possible. Thank you., and Thank you too Joni. Comments like yours remind me of all of the wondrous windfalls to be more saturated in them, immersed in the feelings
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Cj Clark Piona of appreciation and MORE than my ever-ready nature to share everything and anything I have learned along these lines…to show someone else to have all of this is what makes me feel complete in my purpose…and the sperm who won the race to the egg, that third of a century ago. Thankful. :)

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Women

Posted by on December 23, 2011 236 comments

[private]Women.

I love the way the look, I love the way they smell. I love those times when two dimples happen above a girls waist.

Some girls have the sweetest voices, others have the sexiest voices. I like how they’re humble and graceful and usually polite.

AND I totally DO LOVE hearing about how they look at the world, been that way since I was 5.[/private]

About a guy many coaches called hopeless, I figured out what would get him progress:

Posted by on December 6, 2011 245 comments

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RE: Clear violation of the rules

(11-01-2011 06:26 PM)Serendipitous Wrote: Achilles will not find the help he needs in this community.

He’s just as guilty of antagonizing and breeding negativity as anyone else.

I move to vote him out of the community based on these reasons.

HE WILL AND HE HAS!!!

PERSONALLY I HAVE WORKED WITH HIM, from a difference in two sessions.

First was at Night GSF, where I too felt he was hopeless, and a man of suckage..

To ask for futher help like he was demanding what he expected due to him

even without any regard to help been given him by me so far.

I wrote a post about this I saw, if I can find where I post it I will put link here [URL]

He has difference to other guys like well do.

Once I learned his differences, I worked with him again, Daytime.

Through 4 sets I saw his dramatic increase in progress so well, I was thankful he asked to be video’d.

From set 1 to set 4 you can see him improving in each one based on feedback to be a completely different level of progress,, signifigantly noticed by him, and viewer and most importantly the girls he was talking to.

They became warm to him much quicker in the 4th set than the first set based on the significant difference in how he was structuring things, with video to remind him what got him those differences.

Sure we are 3.4 billion different men on this planet, each with a snowflake to our imprint.

Serendipitous Wrote:He’s just as guilty of antagonizing and breeding negativity as anyone else.

That is absolutely not true & I will have credible, variable reference to this point I make. Either quoted here or directly on the thread he is in.

Check the both if you would like to fact-check with me.

Serendipitous Wrote:I move to vote him out of the community based on these reasons.

Absolutely NOT! (Yes you may vote whatever you want, I was just stating my wholehearted disagreement with, and I will explain why)

This is a mirror image of the newbie at Night GSF (of months ago) that you moved in to his set to cockblock him and highjack set.

Your first rational to me as I asked about it, was that the girl was eye-fucking you and wanted you..
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Does that interpretable claim seem like accurate enough reason to walk over, get in man’s set, and gum it up for him?

When I stated what I observed from an outside perspective, and regardless if what you claimed was true (although you didn’t even hook her as long as he did before you ejected him) you further that by telling me: “Well I just don’t like him”

Not only did you disregard my comments that those moves and motivations were unacceptable, so did some of the 4 other lair guys who were at Lir with us that night state to you.

After several of us were in mini-pow-wows trying to figure out the nature & rational of the moves.

With different members who were present, I was in conversations…and then from one party or the other I heard about other conversations about this same incident. (I have yet to say who, but that reason comes up later in this post. )

I continuously tried to understand what you didn’t like about this newbie since you still gave me no concrete or any reason.

Regardless of what I spent times in discussions with you, other lair guys present when that happened, and my personal reflection…

I did those things out of friendship

The thing is., regardless if I spent the time doing it for you, it STILL DOES NOT make the action right.

or acceptable from a person with a leadership standpoint.

Guys have repeatedly muffle their complaints about you out of fear of losing their membership here.

Can’t wonder too long why since some things are stated as immediate punishment without warning.

A guy under that M.O. has no chance to slip up & make a mistake then learn from it to correct his future actions..

He feels as if he walks on eggshells, and might lose something very valuable by doing something he didn’t know was wrong.er to make an judgement, or a statement of absolute before I am sure, so far the only similarity between that guy at Lir months ago & Achilles is their culture.

This is another example of why I vehemently oppose, a ‘no-mistake policy’ within the Symposium.

Men make mistakes

Men come to this group for self improvement on a variey of levels
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Mistakes are some of the best lessons available.

For a policy, when it comes to mistakes

Let’s take breaking a rule that is written in the Symposium rules.

Every guy reads that at a different amount of careful thought through it.

Some terms used go undefined within rules. (see my post on Flaming for excellent example)

So then with a definition, each guy may make his own definition that may not agree with what is meant in rules, or how other guys interpret term (see Achilles post of Plowing) Although he had credible references to his point, guys were opposing his point, arguing what is meant, that didn’t know what the term means

[THIS POST WILL BE ADDED TO BY ME AND WILL REQUIRE A RE-READ BY MEMBERS IF IT HASN'T BEEN REPLIED TO BEFORE i FINISH MY ELABORATION OF THIS TOPIC. THANK YOU]

Sry I am only able to get to these boards once or less per day.
If for ANY reason u need/want or just would like to contact me

PLEASE feel free to to use this: (Cellphone call/text 857-544-1943 24hrs) or cj@thebostondatingcoach.com goes directly to my phone.

Transcript about girl 2 days ago from student

Posted by on November 10, 2011 39 comments

GreyWolf has sent you the following message:
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me: whats a good way to reengage that chick from the party that left
I feel like if i dont make contact its gonna go cold

cj: how many days ago was the party

me: sat night, so 2

cj:thats fine, problems come from being too quick seeming needy rather than waiting too long. you are a busy guy and maybe can squeeze her in.

me: Hey some friends of mine are having a small party at their house tonight
do you think it would be good to invite that girlthat walked out on me last weekend
or is it too soon still
and if its not then how should i go about doing it

cj:just let her know it is going on and she is welcome to come
talk about the fun it will be the time and the approximate location… so you have more to tell her if she shows interest

me: funny thing happened last night
I was at dinner at my proffesor’s house (he is an orthodox jew) and he had friends over
one of his friends came with his niecewo isn’t religious and is a senior in college
me her her uncle and his wife walked to her car at the end of the night and she gave me a ride home
I got her number and invited her to aparty
The funny thing is that while we were walking her uncle asked me to date her since she has a nonjewish boyfriend
she is actually really cute so im down to try
but since she isnt religious i think it might do me more harm to have her uncle play me up to her

cj: prolly girls are more likely to date ppl their parent dont like when the girl is trying to break out of the familymold

me: will it do me well to display to her thatim also not religious

cj: yes and if your parents are religoius it shows you have similar struggles

me: my parents are secular like me
how should i structure the conversation when i call her to get her to come

cj: easiest is to just tell her of an awesome party she can come to

me: so at the party i danced a little bit with this girl i danced with before
she offered me her number and i took it
she didnt want to kiss but i think it might have been cause her friends were there
i know she has a boyfirend but i dont think she is very loyal so that shouldnt be a problem
what and when should i text her
should i invite her to hang out or wait for a party

cj: first before i ask yo uquestions what does your gut tell you, hang out or party

me: she is abit of aparty girl and probablly gave me her number so i’d invite her to parties so i think party but i could be wrong

cj: thats your logic adding things up is that what you felt when she gave it to you

me: she might have given it so i’d call to hang out later but im not sure
what would you do

cj: ok so you can just toss things out there if it was her idea to get # you never know you can toss things like im going to grab a bite wanna join
or im watching xyz movie swingby if you want etc
to see if she captures at the offers
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“Seige, for the record – brilliant stuff” -Client

Posted by on October 26, 2011 622 comments

Seeker Wrote:

Seige, for the record – brilliant stuff. Thanks for sharing. As someone climbing (and perhaps at time struggling) up the first foothills it is neat to see how someone climbs the whole mountain.

I also have a new respect for everything that goes into the whole process, after having banged away at things for a while. After you showed me you can open any group I would have talked to those girls. But I have been horrible about escalation and counted tons of subsequent places in your tale where I would have let things die.

[Your] post showed me just how much you have to lead and persist to close the deal. So again, kudos and thanks for another lesson .

Peace out,
Seeker

Always my pleasure Seeker. My biggest love in helping the guys that come to me directly, is seeing and hearing the marvelous results in their own game. That is what gets the high-5s going off in my head and why I continue to do what I do.

“Las Vegas is the Disney World for Boys who become Men with a better taste of the REAL Pleasures in Life.”

Posted by on October 24, 2011 1,398 comments

Event Details

Men,

Las Vegas is the world’s adult Disney World. So image being there with a Dating coach guiding you along…scratch that, Image being there with 3-4 coaches!

There is a mansion in Vegas that is creating a buzz in this Seduction “Community”. Yes I said Mansion, 5 bedrooms and baths, fireplaces…yes more than one, POOL! and more!

“Hey hunny, great talking to you, you should come to the after party, AT OUR HOUSE, with a POOL, and Jacuzzi!!” ~C.J. “The Siege” to girls at team pull with JerseyBoy in LA.

Read that quote over again.

Now remeber it. Once you are rolling along in conversation with some new girls, drop that into conversation to see some girl’s eyes light up!

The from there all you have to do is work out logistics to move you all back to the Place wwhen sexy fun is abbout to ahppen.

You see, Siege is there with a single fun outcome in mind that will prioritize the others throughout what is going on. Sure He’ll be enjoying the rest ov=f Vegas, with a particular radar on.

And ALSO rememer, what he is looking to have he gets so once one girl in the group is making out, that feeling transfers to the girl you are talking to with him as your wing.

Then she want’s to making out, this increasing your ability to escalate with her ENPORMOUSLY!!

Then once back to the pad, the girl you are talking to hears/sees sexy time going on with C.J. and his girl. She too want to be having sexy-time since the mere thought of hearing her friend enjoying the pleasures she wants, willl raise her buying temperature like you’d never believe…that is unless you have singed up foro the Vegas Event

This is not your everyday meet-up or weekend boot camp, you and the coaches DO NOT part ways for hours after the outing to your respective hotel rooms. You get a text from a girl after the night is done, there is a coach right there ready to help!

This is a project house weekend in the city that parties 24/7! on Halloween weekend no less!

This isn’t just locals, this is everyone from every where, flying/driving in to party and be naughty!

Guys this is a chance to get out and broaden your horizons! Travel and bring home stories to your friends and even women in your home town. SO when she asks have you traveled your response can be something other than “Yes with my mom and dad, to Disney world, when i was FIVE!

The problem in this are of self-improvement is that there is too many who want to read material for days or months on end and never strp out of their home or their OR their comfort zone then go out with others who do that same thing, and it ends up being “The Blind leading the Blind”

Lets put a stop to that and hit Vegas with coaches and make some memories to last a life time!

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Vegas recommendations
There is some people on this forum heading to Vegas, so I thought I’d put in my recommendations and what I’ve learned:

1. Girls at tables won’t talk to you that much.

Well, if it’s tables like Craps or Roulette, they got time to talk after their turn, or during their turn, but when it comes down to card games, they would prefer not to talk, but think up ways on how to win. You can make quick and witty comments to grab her attention then pull her to a different table, but conversation wise, no- they will not talk to you.

2. Girls are easier at the slot machines.

Slot machines are designed so you can take your time with them. There is no pressure or rush to do anything. So they can stop whatever they are doing and talk to you, or play and talk at the same time.

3. Pull them from different parts of the casino.

The casinos have a lot of things to look at, and places to be. Such as bars, clubs, slot machines, tables, or even watching a game together. Pull them to different areas to create small intimate moments that you can expand on later.

4. Pull them to different casinos.

It’s like making small intimate moments inside the casino, you are now making a larger memory to help raise the attraction and comfort. Also, there is open liquor laws in Vegas. Share a drink outside by bridge that connects the Excaliber to the NYC Hotel, or watch the pirate show at the Treasure Island hotel for free.

5. Shopping Malls inside the casino and the Vegas Strip are awesome places to meet women too.

It’s like Day GSF, except you can pull them into the bedroom without leaving your hotel/casino (well, depending on where you are. I recommend Ceasars Palace. A lot of high class and beautiful girls there.)

6. Wednesday night (or was it Thursday?) at the Planet Hollywood Hotel/casino

Strippers on poles and half naked women everywhere. What’s not to enjoy?

7. Vegas has the best strip clubs in America

JUST DO IT

8. The Vegas Effect

Remember, no one REALLY lives in Vegas…and tourists are always more prone for one night stands as opposed to local natives. Why? Because it’s exciting, daring, and fun.

9. Don’t forget the 4 questions to SNL

This actually works a lot better there, I found.

10. Eat your vegetables…

Nothing is more sexy than a man who loves his vegetables.

AND HERE IS YOUR BONUS:

11. If you’re looking for drugs, late night, on the bridge the connects the NYC Hotel and the Excaliber. Dealers usually hang out there.

Overall, guys, have fun. If you’re looking for any other fun places to check out while you’re there, I visited about all the casino’s, so I know where to go.

-DSmoothMike, Assist. to Dating Coach
D as in “Damn” Smooth as in “Butter” Mike as in “The Filippino lover!”

Scholarships for PUA Training:

Posted by on October 20, 2011 46 comments

Clickk this link HERE for Scholarships
Contact C.J “The Siege” at Siege@adventuresofattraction.com for complete details

Why ‘Three plus hour round trip’ to the weekly events I post is worth it

Posted by on October 15, 2011 622 comments

•“ I’ve been to one daygame meetup so far and really enjoyed it and benefited from it. The atmosphere was fun, supportive, and welcoming. CJ was very involved, gave a lot of personal attention and help, and was very encouraging and positive. His advice made sense, helpful, and was done in a simple and manageable way. In general CJ seemed to be a cool guy who really wants to help other men succeed in this area of life. I also enjoyed the camaraderie with Justin. It’s about a three plus hour round trip for me to Boston but I’ll definitely be going again because it’s worth it! :) ”

— Kyle on Oct 13, 2011.

Reply to student asking about openers

Posted by on October 3, 2011 81 comments

You like this.

Cj Siege Tell her this: “hey I noticed you from over there & had to come over & say hi. see what ur like…” It doesn’t say more than u mean, nor is it trying too hard to maintain a status of any sort …just clear, direct, honest & to the point. Like any new interaction, yes her beauty has draw you over, but u want to see what she is like before u decide further
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THIS starts the momentum in exactly the right place, she now knows she hasn’t won you over with her looks alone, you want to see what she is like AND THAT will decide how things go from then on.

Begin the chase in the right way! (Her to you)

“…talk on escalation we one of the most influential things on my game I learned during then whole summit.” just came to my phone

Posted by on September 30, 2011 404 comments

Just came to my phone SMS text:

“”Siege, realistically what would it take for you to come out here and do a seminar? Your style is something I know works out in the “bible belt” and that five minute talk on escalation we one of the most influential things on my game I learned during then whole summit. Currently using it!!! So yes I would love to have you out here.”"

[[I wonder if I get the hint of a boyfriend if I should just find out and bail early. ]]

Posted by on September 27, 2011 652 comments

(question from  1-on-1 dating skill coaching session)

You never know if the boyfriend is real. Seeing you continue on in conversation when this is mentioned by a girl shows great confidence and[private] no neediness for specific outcome. You can enjoy the moment and move on after. If it was an automatic things that girls say when approached by new guys, then it will dissolve as she gets to know you better. If is is a real boyfriend and she has been thinking of leaving him anyways then you might be who she wants. If she has a real boyfriend but you do enjoy her company, she might be a great friend to be out places with. That will be enjoyable time and if you open other girls, she wont’s care and the other girls already see you as a girl-friendly guy, or pre-selected by women, so to speak. (F10)  [/private]

Part of note from guy helped in field

Posted by on August 23, 2011 56 comments

[private]“I have to give HUGE props to CJ, aka Siege. Not only is he a great teacher and knows his stuff, but its obvious that he genuinely cares and wants us to learn. With just a few words, he has this weird/amazing ability to whittle away all the bullshit and excuses I make for myself and get me to approach.”

Thanks Ender, great progress today

 

~C.J.

 

 

 

 

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<----NYC Dating Skills Convention 2011

Posted by on July 20, 2011 390 comments

[private]When: Friday, July 22-24, 2011

Price: $247 per person Total only, (not 3 payments of $127.000 each, with 2 later ones hidden in the fine print)

Friends,

The Real New York City Dating Skills Convention July 22-24 line-up is awesome. Hear a bunch of different styles and expert dating coaches — to decide which works best for you. It’s the least expensive Conference or Convention in existence. These speakers are the biggest out there and include:

- David Wygant, real-life guru WIll Smith plays in the movie ” Hitch”

- Vince Kelvin of Seduction Coaching, attraction guru with 20 years experience teaching

- Garvelous (Kevin) of Root Of Attraction, guru written about in Neil Strauss’ “The Game”

- Race DePriest of The Social Man & formerly Art of Charm, online & text game guru

- Big Will of You Are So In My Way , from David DeAngelo’s original Interviews With Dating Gurus series

- Christian Hudson of The Social Man, social-artists and social circle guru

- Nathan P. of “Wingman Crew”, creator of only nationwide men’s dating education not for profit group and scholarship fund

- Philip J. of Inside Out Social Dynamics, inner-confidence guru

- Luke Alishus, same day lay & stripper game guru

- JerseyBoy of JerseyBoy Pua, non-verbal & body language guru

- C.J. The Siege of Adventures Of Attraction, get her chasing you guru

- Jonnie Walker, direct game guru

- & many more including a mystery guest I can’t name

- tips on where to go to get free professional fashion stylists

You also actually get optional Free FIELD-TRIP coaching included in the ticket price. Tickets are for 3 days of seminar (classroom style) and some FIELD-TRIP coaching. This way you’re able to learn from the best Guru’s in the world and then actually go on a field-trip with them and have them help you every step of the way. Separately, just this alone would cost thousands.

The event will go the entire weekend Friday 5pm-9pm, Saturday 11am-8pm and Sunday 11am-8pm. This alone would cost you thousands. There will also be a “mystery” guest speaker we’re not allowed to name yet at an included bonus presentation you would get exclusive access to the following Friday, July 29, 2011 at 7pm.

Like all things… because seating is limited, the price will continue to drastically increase from here. You’ll get the best price here and now. This is not a payment plan price… this is the full price. There is no payment plan available because it’s already too inexpensive. You can now Paypal with only a credit or debit card.

I believe in covering expenses and keeping things affordable for the average guy because I once was. As a result, the seduction “industry” doesn’t care for my Wal-Mart approach, but the smaller quieter seduction “community” loves the value I consistently deliver with great events for my members. You’re not going to find a super fancy websites, slick overhyping salesletters and never ending corporate style squeezepages — just great live content!

Like all things, the price will continually and drastically increase. If you attend the entire event (always arrive on-time and stay till the end) and don’t feel you received value greater than what you paid, we’ll refund you. If you have any questions, comments or concerns, please feel free to text me at 857-544-1943.

Thank You
~C.J. “The Siege”[/private]

Pua Summit 2011, Chicago (Dating Skills Convention)

Posted by on May 31, 2011 Comments Off

[private]Chicago PUA Summit is 3 days of the most powerful content from 15 is 3 days of the most powerful content from 15 top names in the dating advice and seduction community. There is also an optional FREE field-trip with the speakers doing demonstrations and giving you live professional feedback/coaching on your social interactions — all in the heart of Downtown Chicago! top names in the dating advice and seduction community. There is also an optional FREE field-trip with the speakers doing demonstrations and giving you live professional feedback/coaching on your social interactions — all in the heart of Downtown Chicago!
You don’t have to travel to Los Angeles for this rare event. This has never before happened in Chicago and may not ever again.

Seminar will go from Friday 6pm-9pm, Saturday 11am-8pm & Sunday 11am-8pm. The included field-trip night will be later Friday night.

The price listed on the purchase page will only be the price for the first 24 hours it is announced. After that it will, like all things, continue to increase drastically.

PACKAGE DETAILS:

15 Top named speakers over 3 days!!!
Free in-field coaching
Mega-bonus extra presentation on Thurs, June 16 @ 7PM!!

VIP entry and drink packages to your choice of the hottest clubs in Chicago (e.g. Crescendo, Ybar, Soundbar, Griffin Lounge, Stone Lotus, Proof, Hearts, Lumen)!!!

SPEAKERS:


Tyler Durden of Real Social Dynamics from Neil Strauss’ “The Game”

Matador, Co-star of VH1′s “The Pick-Up Artist” and Mystery’s wingman

David Wygant, the real-life coach Will Smith plays in the movie “Hitch”

Vince Kelvin of Seduction Coaching, 20 years teaching and Attraction & Inner-Game Guru

and of course:

C.J., “The Siege” of Adventures of Attraction

Nathan P, your organizer of the first nationwide network of not for profit men’s dating education groups, “Wingman Crew,” & sponsor of the only scholarship fund

Jonnie Walker, The Chicago Lair chief

Discovery, Venusian Arts Live Training Director

Dan Tena, Charisma Arts Head Instructor, Juggler’s company, Co-author of “The Game”

Luke Alishus, former roommate & head instructor for Amanda & AFC Adam Amanda Lyons, stripper game and same night lay guru

Ratisse of Seduction Trinity & Chicago native, rapid escalation guru

JerseyBoy PUA, body language / non-verbal guru

Magic, Attraction Methods, Guru specializing in dating skills for Indian men

Lothario, Lothario Lifestyle

tpk of Zentropik Research, Online Dating Guru

Psychologic of Tantralogic

DATES: Friday, June 10, 2011 6:00pm – Sunday, June 12, 2011 8:00pm



2011 Chicago PUA Summit



Reserve your seat via PayPal by clicking this link today!

LOCATION:

The secret Chicago event locations will be emailed to prepaid attendees only a week before the start of each event.[/private]

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What got me into sharing what I’ve learned:

Posted by on May 13, 2011 28 comments

[private]My undying goal to draw out the best in the people around me.

I haven’t found anything more internally rewarding yet.[/private]

About personal 0ne-on-one coaching

Posted by on March 9, 2011 46 comments

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Although the coaching that I do is very low priced compared to what
market value for coaching is these days, there is a reason for that
too.

Rather than trying to make the most money out of this, I have been
able to help a higher amount of guys get dramatic results in them
quicker than they thought possible.

. You see each time I help a guy get these results to happen with his
success with women, I get major feelings of fulfillment that I am
giving my fullest gift.

What I charge is just to cover my expense for devoted time to a guy
which always tends to be almost twice what he hired me to commit to
(with outside work devoted to making the most custom, specific
content to be covered with specific exercises and my modeling things
in set when needed.)

I have successes with women and have had them most of my life with a
lot of journalling since then for me to understand what has been going
on all these years.. Every time a guy gets major progress due to my
help, then I get those incredible feelings as if I am having those
new-to-them successes myself.

I focus on much of a ‘specif to guy’ style because I have found that
it leads to most dramatic results in a guy in the quickest time. I
work to help a guy build habits, habits that will continue and
continue to grow after our work together is done. The quicker I can
help him get those dramatic results, the quicker I can have high-5s
going off in my head because of it.

I am very focused on increasing the personal calibration of a guy by
teaching him based on his personal levels within all the levels in
this. This can be teaching him examples of what to do in situations
similar to what he gets in & how to escalate based on the types of
interactions he gets in. Guys each with different personal styles
have specific points that come up repetitively with a certain guy.
Each time he learns based on what he is experiencing, things come to
him quicker next time he is in similar situation

I may be be monitoring nearby and nonchalantly taking notes for re-cap
conversation in my blackberry or giving him ‘under-the-radar’ signals
of what to do next (get number, touch her, or shooting him a text to
tell him the best steps to take to escalate right in the moment.

Sometimes guys need to see things modeled for them in speed-of-life
time with them to witness what is going on to see what really
happens. Since I can direct interactions to many places while in set,
I am able to show guys first hand everything from how to stay positive
during blow-outs and be leaving set with good energy (even getting
high-5s from girls in set right before we leave) to raising sexual
tension, to getting the attractions spiked in the girls, they can’t
stop following guy around venue or talking about him rest of night ( I
have modeled this many times for students & still hear of lingering
conversations about me from friends of girls that haven’t seen me for
a while).
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(passage from student to 3rd party)

[...] C.J. has provided me with dating theory, tools, and most
importantly, field experience.[...] He would also explain dating
theory and illuminate— the way that women think and behave. Then, we
would go out together. I would talk to dozens of different girls and
C.J. would take notes. Later on we would go over each situation, and
he would commend my good behavior, and point out the things that I
could improve.[/private]