Category Archives: Meeting up

Reviews of coaching sessions:

Posted by on June 28, 2012 368 comments

“ Great time, I think going out like that in a group on a regular basis is the only way to improve “cold approaches”. CJ has been very helpful in providing feedback and giving “missions” for the night. ”

— Andrey

“ I spent a year trying websites and a very expensive matchmaking service, with very poor results. These services promise to take the anxiety and effort out of finding women, but I got extremely few responses from the websites and extremely few matches from the matchmaking service. And in those very few cases where I actually met the girl, she didn’t like me and I didn’t like her. This was true even for the very expensive matchmaking service. The websites and matchmaking service might work for some people, but in my case, I think there is no quick and simple way to eliminate the anxiety and work involved with finding women. I should have joined this meet up group a year ago instead of spending all that effort and money on websites and the matchmaking service. ”

— Su-Ming Wu

“ I’ve been to one daygame meetup so far and really enjoyed it and benefited from it. The atmosphere was fun, supportive, and welcoming. CJ was very involved, gave a lot of personal attention and help, and was very encouraging and positive. His advice made sense, seemed helpful, and was done in a simple and manageable way. In general CJ seemed to be a cool guy who really wants to help other men succeed in this area of life. I also enjoyed the camaraderie with Justin. It’s about a three plus hour round trip for me to Boston but I’ll definitely be going again because it’s worth it! :) ”

— Kyle

“ I think this meetup group is fantastic, CJ is very experienced and helpful, I am looking forward to the upcoming meetings. ”

— Justin

“ CJ really knows what he is talking about. He helped me overcome approach anxiety and thought me how to hang in there even when things seemed lost. ”

— Michael

“ Despite having been to only one session, I really enjoyed the meet up with CJ (the organizer). He definitely has a lot to offer, so I can’t wait till the next sessions! ”

— Fawkes

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Posted by on January 7, 2012 147 comments
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Women

Posted by on December 23, 2011 236 comments

[private]Women.

I love the way the look, I love the way they smell. I love those times when two dimples happen above a girls waist.

Some girls have the sweetest voices, others have the sexiest voices. I like how they’re humble and graceful and usually polite.

AND I totally DO LOVE hearing about how they look at the world, been that way since I was 5.[/private]

Transcript about girl 2 days ago from student

Posted by on November 10, 2011 39 comments

GreyWolf has sent you the following message:
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me: whats a good way to reengage that chick from the party that left
I feel like if i dont make contact its gonna go cold

cj: how many days ago was the party

me: sat night, so 2

cj:thats fine, problems come from being too quick seeming needy rather than waiting too long. you are a busy guy and maybe can squeeze her in.

me: Hey some friends of mine are having a small party at their house tonight
do you think it would be good to invite that girlthat walked out on me last weekend
or is it too soon still
and if its not then how should i go about doing it

cj:just let her know it is going on and she is welcome to come
talk about the fun it will be the time and the approximate location… so you have more to tell her if she shows interest

me: funny thing happened last night
I was at dinner at my proffesor’s house (he is an orthodox jew) and he had friends over
one of his friends came with his niecewo isn’t religious and is a senior in college
me her her uncle and his wife walked to her car at the end of the night and she gave me a ride home
I got her number and invited her to aparty
The funny thing is that while we were walking her uncle asked me to date her since she has a nonjewish boyfriend
she is actually really cute so im down to try
but since she isnt religious i think it might do me more harm to have her uncle play me up to her

cj: prolly girls are more likely to date ppl their parent dont like when the girl is trying to break out of the familymold

me: will it do me well to display to her thatim also not religious

cj: yes and if your parents are religoius it shows you have similar struggles

me: my parents are secular like me
how should i structure the conversation when i call her to get her to come

cj: easiest is to just tell her of an awesome party she can come to

me: so at the party i danced a little bit with this girl i danced with before
she offered me her number and i took it
she didnt want to kiss but i think it might have been cause her friends were there
i know she has a boyfirend but i dont think she is very loyal so that shouldnt be a problem
what and when should i text her
should i invite her to hang out or wait for a party

cj: first before i ask yo uquestions what does your gut tell you, hang out or party

me: she is abit of aparty girl and probablly gave me her number so i’d invite her to parties so i think party but i could be wrong

cj: thats your logic adding things up is that what you felt when she gave it to you

me: she might have given it so i’d call to hang out later but im not sure
what would you do

cj: ok so you can just toss things out there if it was her idea to get # you never know you can toss things like im going to grab a bite wanna join
or im watching xyz movie swingby if you want etc
to see if she captures at the offers
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“Las Vegas is the Disney World for Boys who become Men with a better taste of the REAL Pleasures in Life.”

Posted by on October 24, 2011 1,398 comments

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Men,

Las Vegas is the world’s adult Disney World. So image being there with a Dating coach guiding you along…scratch that, Image being there with 3-4 coaches!

There is a mansion in Vegas that is creating a buzz in this Seduction “Community”. Yes I said Mansion, 5 bedrooms and baths, fireplaces…yes more than one, POOL! and more!

“Hey hunny, great talking to you, you should come to the after party, AT OUR HOUSE, with a POOL, and Jacuzzi!!” ~C.J. “The Siege” to girls at team pull with JerseyBoy in LA.

Read that quote over again.

Now remeber it. Once you are rolling along in conversation with some new girls, drop that into conversation to see some girl’s eyes light up!

The from there all you have to do is work out logistics to move you all back to the Place wwhen sexy fun is abbout to ahppen.

You see, Siege is there with a single fun outcome in mind that will prioritize the others throughout what is going on. Sure He’ll be enjoying the rest ov=f Vegas, with a particular radar on.

And ALSO rememer, what he is looking to have he gets so once one girl in the group is making out, that feeling transfers to the girl you are talking to with him as your wing.

Then she want’s to making out, this increasing your ability to escalate with her ENPORMOUSLY!!

Then once back to the pad, the girl you are talking to hears/sees sexy time going on with C.J. and his girl. She too want to be having sexy-time since the mere thought of hearing her friend enjoying the pleasures she wants, willl raise her buying temperature like you’d never believe…that is unless you have singed up foro the Vegas Event

This is not your everyday meet-up or weekend boot camp, you and the coaches DO NOT part ways for hours after the outing to your respective hotel rooms. You get a text from a girl after the night is done, there is a coach right there ready to help!

This is a project house weekend in the city that parties 24/7! on Halloween weekend no less!

This isn’t just locals, this is everyone from every where, flying/driving in to party and be naughty!

Guys this is a chance to get out and broaden your horizons! Travel and bring home stories to your friends and even women in your home town. SO when she asks have you traveled your response can be something other than “Yes with my mom and dad, to Disney world, when i was FIVE!

The problem in this are of self-improvement is that there is too many who want to read material for days or months on end and never strp out of their home or their OR their comfort zone then go out with others who do that same thing, and it ends up being “The Blind leading the Blind”

Lets put a stop to that and hit Vegas with coaches and make some memories to last a life time!

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Vegas recommendations
There is some people on this forum heading to Vegas, so I thought I’d put in my recommendations and what I’ve learned:

1. Girls at tables won’t talk to you that much.

Well, if it’s tables like Craps or Roulette, they got time to talk after their turn, or during their turn, but when it comes down to card games, they would prefer not to talk, but think up ways on how to win. You can make quick and witty comments to grab her attention then pull her to a different table, but conversation wise, no- they will not talk to you.

2. Girls are easier at the slot machines.

Slot machines are designed so you can take your time with them. There is no pressure or rush to do anything. So they can stop whatever they are doing and talk to you, or play and talk at the same time.

3. Pull them from different parts of the casino.

The casinos have a lot of things to look at, and places to be. Such as bars, clubs, slot machines, tables, or even watching a game together. Pull them to different areas to create small intimate moments that you can expand on later.

4. Pull them to different casinos.

It’s like making small intimate moments inside the casino, you are now making a larger memory to help raise the attraction and comfort. Also, there is open liquor laws in Vegas. Share a drink outside by bridge that connects the Excaliber to the NYC Hotel, or watch the pirate show at the Treasure Island hotel for free.

5. Shopping Malls inside the casino and the Vegas Strip are awesome places to meet women too.

It’s like Day GSF, except you can pull them into the bedroom without leaving your hotel/casino (well, depending on where you are. I recommend Ceasars Palace. A lot of high class and beautiful girls there.)

6. Wednesday night (or was it Thursday?) at the Planet Hollywood Hotel/casino

Strippers on poles and half naked women everywhere. What’s not to enjoy?

7. Vegas has the best strip clubs in America

JUST DO IT

8. The Vegas Effect

Remember, no one REALLY lives in Vegas…and tourists are always more prone for one night stands as opposed to local natives. Why? Because it’s exciting, daring, and fun.

9. Don’t forget the 4 questions to SNL

This actually works a lot better there, I found.

10. Eat your vegetables…

Nothing is more sexy than a man who loves his vegetables.

AND HERE IS YOUR BONUS:

11. If you’re looking for drugs, late night, on the bridge the connects the NYC Hotel and the Excaliber. Dealers usually hang out there.

Overall, guys, have fun. If you’re looking for any other fun places to check out while you’re there, I visited about all the casino’s, so I know where to go.

-DSmoothMike, Assist. to Dating Coach
D as in “Damn” Smooth as in “Butter” Mike as in “The Filippino lover!”

Why ‘Three plus hour round trip’ to the weekly events I post is worth it

Posted by on October 15, 2011 622 comments

•“ I’ve been to one daygame meetup so far and really enjoyed it and benefited from it. The atmosphere was fun, supportive, and welcoming. CJ was very involved, gave a lot of personal attention and help, and was very encouraging and positive. His advice made sense, helpful, and was done in a simple and manageable way. In general CJ seemed to be a cool guy who really wants to help other men succeed in this area of life. I also enjoyed the camaraderie with Justin. It’s about a three plus hour round trip for me to Boston but I’ll definitely be going again because it’s worth it! :) ”

— Kyle on Oct 13, 2011.