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Creative Date Ideas

Make a movie together—find odd props around the house, then come up with a funny scenario to act out.
Have a backwards date and do everything backwards from what you normally do on a date.
Find a little stream or small river and make boats out of aluminum foil then race them! Bet little things for the winner, such as “if my boat wins you have to hold my hand” or “if my boat wins you have to show me your favorite childhood park” its fun, creative, and competative. Good ice breaker and fun!~Jenn
Put on funny accents and go around town asking for directions to places that don’t exist ~ Mark
Gather a lot of make up. Your date makes you look “pretty”. And you make your date look “pretty”. And take picture and send the pics to your best friend who decides who looks “prettier”. And Have fun!!! :) ~kay
Dress in all black – buy window paint and go around town drawing funny pictures on your friends cars.
Buy flowers and give them to random people on the street who look like they need a “pick-me-up”
Marshmallow fight
Get a raft and put ii in a pool. Everyone get on the raft and watch “Jaws” projected on the side of the house.

Go out with some clip boards and do a survey in a public place. Use funny questions about how many times people brush their teeth and what they had for dinner.
Make something creative with clay
Cartoon date: Meet at 9am and watch cartoons while eating your favorite kids cereal…must be in your pajamas.
Go panning for gold in a river. Wear a funny hat and act like you really need to find some.
Go to a restaurant—just order appetizers
Go chat with random people and see how long people will talk with you in public place.
Make kites—go to a local park to fly them.
For a Creative group date – Go on a scavenger hunt in your neighborhood to find all the ingredients you need to make cookies. When the cookies are made, take them to a mutual friend or maybe a grandparent.
Go “people watching” at the mall—it can be fun to just sit and talk.
Go on a “Video Scavenger Hunt”
Directions: Each team has a video camera and a list of scenarios to get footage of — Here are a few possible ideas: Interview a complete stranger about something random, find a random stranger and greet them like an old friend, pretend to know them from somewhere, stage a “break up”, yell at each other and draw lots of attention, try on clothing for the opposite sex. As you can tell, this can be a ton of fun, especially when you go back and watch your footage.
Go for a bike ride in your neighborhood—maybe find a tandem bicycle to borrow or rent.
Go to the park and feed the birds
Go to random spots in your hometown and take pictures – Be creative and this date can be a lot of fun.
Go to your local animal shelter and play with the animals—Who knows, you just might find a new friend
Have a “Bring your own topping” waffle party—assign each group member to bring his or her favorite waffle toppings
Make homemade ice cream together
Make Cupcakes together – Decorate them with icing, sprinkles, or anything! Cupcake Liners & Wrappers
Lay trash bags on the floor and eat spaghetti together with your hands.
Find inner tubes and float down a nearby river
Get a role of quarters and have a contest to see who can get the best and most creative item from the 25cent machines (maybe in a shopping mall)
Go to the thrift store with 5 dollars; have a contest to see who can get the best item Or–buy clothing for your date – wear the clothing on the date
Color pictures together—find a fun coloring book or print coloring book pages off of the Internet
Creative finger painting date—put on an apron cuz this can get messy. Find some big paper or maybe a cardboard box and make a masterpiece together.
Blind-Fold Miniature Golf—miniature golf is fun, but it can be even more fun when you add some variations; play a round with blindfolds, then try playing three legged miniature golf (tie your dates left leg to your right leg)
Visit garage sales—Travel around your neighborhood on a Saturday morning and visit the garage sales.
Build a fort together out of blankets and furniture, or make your own haunted house
Take a trip to your local hobby shop – pick out a project to work on for the afternoon—maybe build a boat, or a rocket, something that you can play with!
Make-Your-Own Pizza
Play the game “Bigger or Better”
Directions: Each couple starts with something small—go door to door in your neighborhood asking people to triad you for something bigger or better than the item. At the end of a specified amount of time, gather together as a group and vote on who got the biggest and best item.
Go ice blocking—slide down big hills on a large block of ice. Bring towels to lay on the ice (to sit on).
Make creative outfits for each other out of newspaper, then have a fashion show!
Set up a tent in your front room, sit in the tent and eat dinner on a blanket–build a
fake fire, or roast marshmallows over a candle.
Have a progressive meal
Directions: Select different restaurants around town and go to each one. Order drinks at one, appetizers at another, go somewhere new for the main course, and top it off with your favorite desert in town.
Go on a nature walk and pick up garbage on the way, give a prize for the strangest item found, and for the most garbage collected. Its fun, and your doing service in your community!
Go on a picnic, but choose somewhere extremely random–like on your roof
Read a book together—Choose your favorite childhood story and read aloud
Put on a play – choose a popular story from literature, or a movie
If you or your date are the Creative Musical type – Write a song together
Build a sand castle—this could be at the beach, or even in a sand box
Make your own drive in movie! Borrow or rent a projector and watch a movie in your backyard, or set your TV up in the garage and watch your favorite movies from inside your car.
Wii Olympics — get a group together and have a competition using Wii Sports
Glow sticks in a park – need we say more
Build something together with legos or lincoln Logs
Have a Fondue party – Get a good Fondue recipe (they are all over online) and have a Fondue dinner, or Fondue desserts.
Play dress up—be sure to take lots of pictures
Make life lists together—all the things you want to do before you die – Be creative and help your date come up with some fun things.
Have a Marshmallow eating contest — see who in the group can fit the most mallows in their mouth!
Reverse Trick-or-Treating
Directions: Dress up in your Halloween costume (any time of year) and walk around town with your date knocking on doors. Instead of asking for trick-or-treats, bring treats of your own to hand out.
Play live Clue—This one requires some creativity
Directions: Hand out clues to each individual in the group (location, weapon, killer etc..) ask each other questions to determine the killer. This can be a lot of fun but requires some creativity and preparation.
Have a “LAN Party”—a computer game night with everyone playing at the same place. This can be fun even if you don’t normally enjoy video games—just laugh together and have a good time.
Make a fancy resturant in your apartment/room and have your friends serve you with food you made.
Go to ChuckeCheese or Mcdonalds for dinner. Do activities that would be a kids dream to do. Arcades and Disney movies rock.
Frisbee in the dark with glow sticks and a light up frisbee ~JaNae
Pick a culture of the world and imitate with food, activities, and clothes to match.
Make your date decide.
Directions: make it mysterious for your date–take your ideas to them throughout the week, tell them to just answer the random questions you ask them. For example: red or white (color of flower you bring) fast or slow ( fast food or sit down restaurant) hot or cold (Ice Cream or hot cocoa) – Anything will work. You ask them during the week then during the date reveal to them what they decided. It’s quirky and cute but fun.
Go to an art museum with a date that appreciates art just as much as you do( more fun if that appreciation is minimal) and make fun of the art. Gives time for good one on one convo and you can show off your funny side. If you really do love art thats great too!
Here is a Creative Date Idea – Play paint twister. Make a twister mat using some old plastic (like a tablecloth)– except put paint where the colored dots would be. SO MUCH FUN ~Julie
Have a fancy dinner consisting of breakfast cereal. (Its funner if they see the fancy setting before they know what’s on the menu, then they get a funny surprise). ~ Dani
Build paper airplanes and shoot them down with shotguns. ~Dave
Have a paint war. Get large bath sponges and cut them into baseball size sponges then dip them in buckets of washable paint and go crazy. ~Andy
Kidnapping – this can be fun when done by boy Or girl. A group of guys or girls go out and kidnapp their dates, blind fold them, the whole shabang. Then surprise them by taking them to a cute picnic at the park. Fun if it’s with a group or can be a cute romantic single date. ~ Allyson
Survivor date- double date, select several activities such as a game, puzzles, eating contest etc… and have competition with the other couple to see who is better. You can also play it so that the loser buys desserts. Makes it more interesting. ~ Matt
Make a list of outrageous things on a Bingo card like mullets, scrunchies, spandex pants and hiking boots, etc and walk around Wal Mart trying to find people sporting the items on your bingo cards. Loser has to buy the winner Hot Pockets for dinner ~ Dena
Go to the park and have a picnic. But to mix it up a little have one of your friends come and dance for you (ribbon dancing is always good). It is quite the sight! ~Michelle
Eat lunch in the middle of a round-a-bout. Bring a blanket and a basket, have fun, and watch peoples faces as they circle you :) ~Aaron Ross
Play hide-and-seek with multiple couples in walmart! You and your date are a team against the other couples! ~ Michael
Buy little tubs and fill them with different colored paint. Have a paint war! ~Kaitlyn
Build a fort in your house using blankets and tables/furniture..etc. Then you can play games, watch a movie, do a coloring book, do a puzzle..anything you want inside the fort.
Find some good skipping rocks, buy some glow sticks, and go to a lake. Take a plastic bag and put the rocks in the bag — break the glow sticks open and pour them into the bag with the rocks — mix it around. by the way you do this at night. Then skip the rocks and see them glowing as they skip across the water. ~ Micah
Go with your date to a movie one night with a big group of friends. Although instead of staying and watcing the movie you and you’r date ditch the rest and go for a walk. Find somewhere calm and quite that would be a great place to be alone. You will of had preset a blanket and a picnic basket at this place all ready for you and your date’s arrivial. Inside the basket should be pizza that you asked to be cut in the shape of a heart and something to drink (simple stuff be creative). You and you’r date will have a great time under the stars cuddled up on a blanket and afterword you’r date will have a fantastic story to tell to their friends who were wondering where in the world you two went. ~ Howi
Go to a party store or a costume store and buy some crazy hats and fake mustaches. Anything to make you look goofy. Then take on a fake accent and a name and go out to a public place and eat. Tell random stories and make yourself look outrageous but not obnoxious. This is super fun because it makes the people around you laugh and cheer up but at the same time you and your date are having a blast being silly. ~ Devi
Go to a store, Ikea works great, and in all the room settings, make up a scenario and act them out. For example, in one room that has a tv, pretend you’re watching a scary movie

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me: my friend is having a small party tonight and i have a girl coming with me
how shouls i go about the nigh
im good at night game at big parties where its mostly grinding but im not so confident about a small house party
hey so she just asked me if she can bring friends
she has an annoying cockblock friend
whats a good way of telling her she cant?
cj: ur friends party, ur allowed to bring 1 guest
me: duh…
thanks
idk why i walways miss the simple stuff
she said ohh well i promised my firend ill go out with her tonight
cj: if you want her 2 come with cockblcok friend… tell her you’ll check with ur friend to make an axception. then wait a bit and tell her only one friend… that is if u want cockblock. myself, i would blow it off as in ok we’ll make it another night… to girl than later tell her what a phenomenal fun she missed. shows take her or leave her attitude and that she needs to make special accomodations 4 u which girls will do once you get their attarction/rap
me: she actually menioned another friend who im good with and shouldnt be a paroblem
cj: generally its best to stand your ground
she may be testing yoy if she sees u switch original stand u may come across as too supplicating… which is not attractive to girls
once i made a statement i stick to it
she then knows she has to accomodate to guy (what girls like to do) not guy aaccomomdating to her( girls find unattractive and too needy)… sticking toguns now may lead to more deeper attraction next time… u have girls all over your life. if sheis lucky enough for a chance to hang with u she learns to accomodate to what offers u give her
me: thanks
im at this girls place we were studying and now were watching a movie
i tried to escalate but she went to the kitchen and then went to sit on another couch
what can i do now
cj: well, your there now?
me: yes
cj: have u escalated before w/ her?
me: i tried she was ok with itfor a little but then she went to the kitchen and sat on another couch when she cme back
cj: sometimes i may say hey come sit here ( happily and patting place next to you) i want to show you somethinglike palm reading…
me: idk plam reading
what else can i use
cj: take her hand she her one of the lines on her palm and tell her it is a river. then pointide of the rivertell her there is an apple tree on that side of the river. then pint to the other side (you are holding her hand in yours this whole time)
and tell her bob and sue are on the other side of the river
then ask her how do bob and sue get across the frozen river to pick an apple
she’ll probably say they’ll walk the river is frozen
then you say if the river is frozen then its winter and there are no apples
you both can laught at thesilly joke but now you’ve been holding her hand for some time put it down after the joke but she should be morewarmed up to slow escalation at least off handed affection
me: i di that and she didnt find it funny and went back to her seat
cj: we’ll practice your deliverywhen we meetup again. she may be in ana off mood but who knows. if she was fine, then something crossed her mind to change things…
depending on her mood, i might tellher that she seems a little stressed, she should sit on floor in fornt of me between legs so i can rub her shoulders
like everything, may work or may not but u never know till u try. are u guys talking about stuff… do u know to seduce in conversation
me: no how do i do that
cj: first i like to bring up an imagination topic, to free up both of our minds if you couldwake tmrw anywhere in the world where would it be
then she tells me. i ask her why what about the place drew herto pick it
then sensually talk about all the details sights sounds smells of foodfeelings of temperaturetasted of foods theream imagination plane then maybe play in her imagination
ok if we were there tomorrow what the first thing we could do then talk about exploring the placetogether
the ni might say you know those fleeting moments when you feel truely alive while looking at herknowingly with a smirk
i love these moments
do you remember a time that everything was absoloutly prfect and you felt on top of the world
then id ask her to decribe that time while off handedly touching her while i was asking her for detailsadding on to her descriptions
id watch her face while she talks… not even so much on the eyes but roaming around her face her shoulders her neck then back to her face
every so often while she is talking i would look at her face stop my gaze lick my own as i imagined kissing her then back to listening
every time i spoke it would be lowand deep words spoken slowly elongating the vowels pronouncng carefully even when i was speakingi might gaze around her face pasue on her lips and pause mid sentence of what i was saying lick my bottom lip then keep talking
me: tha nks
her roomates just showed up so imight need to hold off on that till tomorrow
cj: that might have been why she held off to prevent things getting too hot then having her roommated walk in
girls do that if she guessed when they’s be back

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me: whats a good way to reengage that chick from the party that left
I feel like if i dont make contact its gonna go cold

cj: how many days ago was the party

me: sat night, so 2

cj:thats fine, problems come from being too quick seeming needy rather than waiting too long. you are a busy guy and maybe can squeeze her in.

me: Hey some friends of mine are having a small party at their house tonight
do you think it would be good to invite that girlthat walked out on me last weekend
or is it too soon still
and if its not then how should i go about doing it

cj:just let her know it is going on and she is welcome to come
talk about the fun it will be the time and the approximate location… so you have more to tell her if she shows interest

me: funny thing happened last night
I was at dinner at my proffesor’s house (he is an orthodox jew) and he had friends over
one of his friends came with his niecewo isn’t religious and is a senior in college
me her her uncle and his wife walked to her car at the end of the night and she gave me a ride home
I got her number and invited her to aparty
The funny thing is that while we were walking her uncle asked me to date her since she has a nonjewish boyfriend
she is actually really cute so im down to try
but since she isnt religious i think it might do me more harm to have her uncle play me up to her

cj: prolly girls are more likely to date ppl their parent dont like when the girl is trying to break out of the familymold

me: will it do me well to display to her thatim also not religious

cj: yes and if your parents are religoius it shows you have similar struggles

me: my parents are secular like me
how should i structure the conversation when i call her to get her to come

cj: easiest is to just tell her of an awesome party she can come to

me: so at the party i danced a little bit with this girl i danced with before
she offered me her number and i took it
she didnt want to kiss but i think it might have been cause her friends were there
i know she has a boyfirend but i dont think she is very loyal so that shouldnt be a problem
what and when should i text her
should i invite her to hang out or wait for a party

cj: first before i ask yo uquestions what does your gut tell you, hang out or party

me: she is abit of aparty girl and probablly gave me her number so i’d invite her to parties so i think party but i could be wrong

cj: thats your logic adding things up is that what you felt when she gave it to you

me: she might have given it so i’d call to hang out later but im not sure
what would you do

cj: ok so you can just toss things out there if it was her idea to get # you never know you can toss things like im going to grab a bite wanna join
or im watching xyz movie swingby if you want etc
to see if she captures at the offers
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