Deeper and slower
Another factor that does attract women and build their wanting for a guy [private]is a guy’s voice. This is a great benefit to getting her on the phone after you meet her rather than just texting. Texting can be great for banter and quick hellos but the sensuality of your voice will hit her on a much deeper level.
This happens both on the phone and in person. Something helpful that I have found to help students all the time, is working on deepening the voice. James Earl Jones and Barry White are great examples, great to model from. To have a voice recorder, you can record your own voice, even while reading something to hear how you speak and understand what you need to work on better.
When with a woman or on the phone with one, remember that women love to talk. I hear guys rambling on a very fast rate. When people get nervous, they tend to raise their rate of speaking. The nervousness of silences works both ways but by showing a very relaxed pattern to your speaking, enjoying the pauses, you make while talking can have a great effect on all parties involved.
It will show you are relaxed. Pauses are great for stressing points or building anticipation for the next part you are about to talk about. When you pause between each idea, each phrase in a sentence, you will see girls have remarks to those single ideas. By slowing your rate of speech you will also see that this will relax you and give you a better eye to be actively noticing what is going on with her while you speak.
When you are saying word, pronounce the whole word completely. You will find sensuality by elongating the vowels in the word you speak and when you are not in any rush to get your ideas out, the people you are speaking with will also have no rush for you to be finished speaking.
When you have those pauses and you hear her having a point to bring up, you can listen completely. You can make mental notes about the points she brings up to call back later. That will make her feel truly listened to which is very attractive. When you are talking slower and keeping part of your attention on her while you are speaking, you can see which topics raise her interest and which ones she is not really interested, that you have more or less rapport on.