is on you, keep your eye contact locked with her as you lean over [private]to your friend to tell him something. It will look to her as if you are talking about this girl you just saw. If you start leaning over when her eyes are locked to hers, she is more likely to hold the contact to see what you are doing.
“You just licked your lips, now you’re touching me…I just wanna talk, slow down missy. You are sitting there waiting for me to talk, waiting for me to feel ready for you. You’re not even listening to what I am really saying….just biding your time until I feel comfortable.”