…you can refer back to a point they previously made, either in the conversation or from an earlier one. This will deepen the rapport felt for you since it clearly indicates their ideas had value to you.
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Things I totally relate to!
This girl that I met at 10pm last night, kept me up till 6am today.
Then at 12:30 today, this comes in:
“:) I have not stopped smiling all day, sorry about the latch, hope the rest of ur day goes just as well, I’ll talk to u soon” ~HBScorpio
When I write/post rest of story, you’ll see what I mean when SNL becomes 8 hour love story that needs a sequel to be congruent.
Sure I fall in love like junior high girls get crushes, but 4 some reason the love is real (totally in love with the moments we share(d) & wouldn’t trade those 4 the world.). …..X, Ttyl. CJ
[private]When she is talking about things she is passionate about.
I’ll say it again:
Show genuine excitement and fascination
about the things she talks about.
Some guys ask me & think if they should be acting this. No. There is no need. I see most guys holding in their excitement because they want to look cool and dismissive. That is really not attractive to woman.
Let yourself show the excitement. I can even get truly excited listening to a girl talk about a subject that I have no interest, no knowledge of, just seeing her passion come through.
I see other guys showing little fascination in new topic they really are curoius about. It is like they want to appear like they know it all. That’s not cool either. Let yourself have ther humility of a kid, when it comes to new topics. You will see the most confident men, the are confident enough to show their lack of knowledge in subjects the really don’t know about.
A very intelligent man once captured the idea: “From everything I have learned, the biggest thing it has taught me is that in comparison to what their is out there, how little I really know.”[/private]