Monthly Archives: June 2012

Reviews of coaching sessions:

Posted by on June 28, 2012 368 comments

“ Great time, I think going out like that in a group on a regular basis is the only way to improve “cold approaches”. CJ has been very helpful in providing feedback and giving “missions” for the night. ”

— Andrey

“ I spent a year trying websites and a very expensive matchmaking service, with very poor results. These services promise to take the anxiety and effort out of finding women, but I got extremely few responses from the websites and extremely few matches from the matchmaking service. And in those very few cases where I actually met the girl, she didn’t like me and I didn’t like her. This was true even for the very expensive matchmaking service. The websites and matchmaking service might work for some people, but in my case, I think there is no quick and simple way to eliminate the anxiety and work involved with finding women. I should have joined this meet up group a year ago instead of spending all that effort and money on websites and the matchmaking service. ”

— Su-Ming Wu

“ I’ve been to one daygame meetup so far and really enjoyed it and benefited from it. The atmosphere was fun, supportive, and welcoming. CJ was very involved, gave a lot of personal attention and help, and was very encouraging and positive. His advice made sense, seemed helpful, and was done in a simple and manageable way. In general CJ seemed to be a cool guy who really wants to help other men succeed in this area of life. I also enjoyed the camaraderie with Justin. It’s about a three plus hour round trip for me to Boston but I’ll definitely be going again because it’s worth it! :) ”

— Kyle

“ I think this meetup group is fantastic, CJ is very experienced and helpful, I am looking forward to the upcoming meetings. ”

— Justin

“ CJ really knows what he is talking about. He helped me overcome approach anxiety and thought me how to hang in there even when things seemed lost. ”

— Michael

“ Despite having been to only one session, I really enjoyed the meet up with CJ (the organizer). He definitely has a lot to offer, so I can’t wait till the next sessions! ”

— Fawkes

CLICK HERE for Meetup group: http://www.meetup.com/FREE-Dating-Coaching/

As he leans in for kiss, she just…

Posted by on June 26, 2012 307 comments

…leans back a bit, a minor resistance.

Most guys seem to take these types of resistance personally but when you look at the facts on the table there is no reason to do that.

First I want you to be proud of your success that you did lean in to go for a kiss.

So many guys hesitate from even doing this for a bunch of reasons the get created in a mind until the facts are analyzed.

They want it to be outrageously clear and explicit that she wants a kiss and won’t pull away or show resistance in any way.

With so many variables in each person, each moment, and every interaction, there is no absolute formula to guarantee anything. There is however ways to increase your calibration so you have better sense of how likely things are to happen.

That is a main focuse in my coaching and teaching is designed to help guys generate an maintain the momentum of that increasing.

But before that and a great help to that is a series of things to keep in mind when in these situations to start the ball rolling.

Yes there are exceptions to everything but girls as a rule do not make the moves to kiss a guy. There are also ways to build up sexual tension so she is more likely to do so if she would, but this is still uncommon.

To be fully embracing both their naturally encoded femininity and the way contemporary culture solidify moat of this, girls do not initiate these sort of things.

They are basically left with two responses to choose from. To accept the escalation (in this example, the kiss) or to deny it as it is coming in.

That’s it: Accept it or Deny it. That’s generally the root of her role in this dynamic, accept or deny.

But don’t take it personal at all, it really has nothing to do with you. It is just the particular stage of the process you are at so far and her personal…

(This is from my phone, I’ll have to come back to this & elaborate from a computer.)

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Girls get approached so often in bars

Posted by on June 25, 2012 523 comments

so they understand that they can replace most of their suitors with the next guy that comes along.Think of a girl in a bar, she blows guys off because guy after guy is coming up to her.

Once you have the active role in designing your life in all actuality, the girl is the overabundant commodity.

It is easy to blow her off since there are tons of women and having high qualifications for the women you welcome into your world makes a spot in it to be more valuable.

That is why the first thing in my mind when I am talking to a new girl is my only goal is to see what she is like to see if I would want her in my world.

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Posted by on June 18, 2012 Comments Off

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Keeping the direct apporach just subtle enough to set the right tempo

Posted by on June 16, 2012 319 comments

“I noticed you from over there & wanted to come over to see what your like. Hi, I’m (name).”

She hasn’t won all the cards because she is beautiful, you still want to see what she is like to see where things are going. By expressing this, she is most likely to be wanting to put her best foot forward, make a good impression on you to earn your liking.

Then upon a few minutes of small talk, if she does seem cool, you can say “You seem to have a really fun energy, we should totally trade contact.”

This gives her the opportunity to participate in the direction, be it number, email or Facebook which doesn’t really matter, since this info trade is simply to hang out later.

If she doesn’t suggest a type, it is easy enough to pull out your phone right after saying this and asking how she spells her name.

Wolfpack PUAPodcast with C.J.

Posted by on June 15, 2012 243 comments

http://www.wolfpacklc.com/Wolf_Pack_Lifestyle_Coaching/PodcastPUA/Entries/2011/11/3_CJ_Siege.html

http://www.wolfpacklc.com/Wolf_Pack_Lifestyle_Coaching/PodcastPUA/Entries/2011/11/3_CJ_Siege.html

Do you remember Project Hollywood? Imagine if it sprouted in VEGAS & YOU were a part of it!

Posted by on June 14, 2012 930 comments

A Master Instructor has acquired a mansion a block behind the Wynn/Encore Resort complex. This is a long-term residential program for guys who are serious about living the rock-star lifestyle and getting very serious about your Game and Vegas is the best place to do that.

This is a legitimate mansion: 5 bedroom, 5 baths, living room, family room, dining room, eat-in-kitchen, 3 fireplaces, bar, POOL, 8 person HOTTUB, jacuzzi, walk-in-closets, vaulted ceilings, 3 car garage, semi-circular driveway, palm trees, landscaping, subzero, skylights, classically partially furnished, etc.

Imagine getting a text from a girl and the coach being right in front of you able to help craft your reply!

The characters in Neil Strauss’ New York Times best-seller ”The Game” became Masters because they essentially created what the self-improvement world would call a mastermind group that did nothing but…

Lived, breathed, ate, slept social dynamics — even hooked up with women together and had many great party times doing it. It admittedly took the writer, Neil Strauss, almost a year of living with other guys on the same journey, before seeing significant consistent results. They lived like rock stars. Where The Game leaves off… you can pick up.

Mastermind groups and the self-improvement field accept that you will only be as successful in a specific area of life as the most successful of the 5 closest people to you.

This is structured living and coaching, if you choose, with a coach and wingmen always around you to party it up and support each other on this journey.

A pilot program was conducted earlier this year.

In only 3 ½ months, the participant, a nerd with crippling approach anxiety was turned into a guy who now gets laid twice/month with different women. This same guy had previously taken several bootcamps and residential programs which were weeks long, left feeling pumped but when he returned home, he went back to his old bad habits. That’s why Weeklong bootcamps, even residential ones, don’t finish the job for most guys.

It’s unreasonable to think you can change this entire area of your life in one month. It took you years to get it to this point. You can’t undo that in only a month. His latest story includes oral in a hotel ice machine room. Lol.

There is also a coach development program option if you want to eventually become a professional coach and help others or just get very good superfast.

The Master Instructor is Luke Krogh, who was a recent Dating Skills Convention speaker, AFC Adam & Amanda Lyons roommate of years, personally trained protege, their Head Instructor who would run bootcamps in their absence and named #7 in the world.

He has been living in Las Vegas for a year now and has built a plethora of club connections and social circle filled with beautiful industry girls that you will be introduced into.

Luke Krogh has appeared on NBC, CBS, Fox News, and in the pages of Cosmopolitan and other various publications. He has taught over 5,000 men around the world the power of charm, seduction, and lifestyle design. These men now have the ability to lead the lives they want and only see others getting.

Once an overweight, dorky, computer programmer with crippling social anxiety Luke transformed himself into the man he had always wanted to be. Now he is continually ranked as a top dating coach and seducer. For a year and a half he traveled the country teaching attraction and seduction workshops every weekend with guaranteed results. The good news is if you’re not succeeding with women it’s not your fault – it’s the environment you are in and the way you react to that environment. Luke Krogh shows you how to make small changes in your behavior and environment to create the lifestyle you see others having and know you deserve.

Personal field-trip coaching with Luke Alishus costs $2,500.00/day, so this is an opportunity to work with him if you’re on a budget, without having to spend that.

There are additional incentives for anyone willing to move in this month only. He will pay your airfare to Las Vegas to take the tour and receive a complimentary in-person coaching session. You can also get up to one month of lost security deposit if you have to break a long-term lease to move in immediately. Moving will probably work easiest for someone whose job allows them to telecommute or who can relocate their work to one of the industries located in the greater Las Vegas area – it’s not just tourism. There is also an opportunity to participate if you only want to show up on weekends.

Price: $1,497.00/per person/mo

This is not a magic-pill quick-fix program. This is a long-term program. The price for all of this is about equal to what you’re already paying for rent right now, especially since every 7th month is rent-free.

During the complimentary coaching session you can both (Instructor and housemate/student) see if you feel comfortable with each other. One bedroom still remains available. After this last spot’s filled, the prices will drastically increase for future applicants. In order to be considered to fill this last spot you must first submit the standardized application below by copy & paste email to cj@adventuresofattraction.com :

1) First Name Last Name

Email

Street Address apt.#

City State Postal Code

Mobile Phone

2) How would you describe your current level of social skills?

3) How would others describe your current level of social skills?

4) Have you taken any trainings and what with whom?

5) Describe a job you did helping a wingman.

6) Do you smoke?

7) Your full job title?

8) Do you rent or own?

9) When would you like to move in?

10) How long do you plan on living the party lifestyle before you settle down or move on?

11) There are different types of different rooms. Which statement most accurately describes you?

A) I would prefer to have the biggest room in the house. I believe in living an elite lifestyle. It may cost a little more, but I’m worth it.

B.) I prefer to live in comfortable conditions, but I don’t need an over-the-top luxury lifestyle.

C) Money is a little tight right now, but I’ll do whatever it takes to get into this situation. I don’t mind living in basic conditions and would be willing to share a bedroom.

12) Do you know your credit score?

13) Your current rent or mortgage payment?

14) Your annual income?

15) 2 Wingman

references: Name:
Emai1:
Name2:
Email2:

16) 2 Landlord
references:
Name:
Email1:
Phone1:
Name2
Email2: Phone2:

17) 2 Employer references (discretion will always be used):
Name1
Email1:
Phone1:
Name2
Email2 Phone2:

18) 2 Roommate
references:
Name1
Email1:

Phone1:
Name2
Email2:
Phone2:

Please copy, paste and email application to cj@adventuresofattraction.com

If you have any questions about the program text only direct to 857-544-1943. Thank you.

To let them know you were really listening…

Posted by on June 13, 2012 906 comments

…you can refer back to a point they previously made, either in the conversation or from an earlier one. This will deepen the rapport felt for you since it clearly indicates their ideas had value to you.

“My daygame experience with CJ the Siege” Post from guy helped in field

Posted by on June 11, 2012 Comments Off

“”My daygame experience with CJ the Siege

Just this past Saturday I went out for daygame coaching with Siege. I have worked with CJ in the past and knew he has a great deal of value to offer, so when I found out he was doing FREE coaching I jumped at the opportunity.

When I arrived at Copley (got there late due to traffic from the Sox game) CJ was demonstrating for some newbies how to approach on the street using a simple opener. (If you want to know the opener, you will just have to ask CJ in person or PM him). The first time I tried it, on a two-set of black chicks, the target seemed warm but her friend pulled her away so I erroneously concluded the opener was bad.

Here is where the coaching came in handy. CJ pointed out that I used the opener just fine but that I paused for too long after the target reacted. He emphasized that you have to be ready to follow-up! So I lost the set not because there was inherently anything wrong with me, but simply because I didn’t keep the conversation flowing. This was simple, usable feedback that I was able to implement right way.

So within 1-2 more approaches of making the adjustment, I immediately got into an engaging 5-10 minute conversation with this cute lawyer chick as we walked up Boylston St. We then parted ways and I returned to Copley.

Another memorable set was a two-set right outside of a restaurant on Newbury St. CJ was observing me from just a few feet away and critiqued the entire set from beginning to end. At one point he even came into the set, showing me how to make natural conversation. Like so many men, I’ve struggled in this area and heavily rely on canned material and routines. CJ emphasized that I should listen more to what the girls are saying and even use that for material to talk about. For example, the girls had an accent so Siege asked them where they were from and worked conversation on that topic for a bit before transitioning to another topic.

I recall a street approach where I watched as CJ got a number-close from this pretty blond. It always helps to observe guys that know what they are doing in-field and then try to emulate them. It gives you a chance to see body language and how women react.

These are just a few examples of the sets that were opened. What I am learning is that simple adjustments in your game can make all the difference.

Now here is something interesting. Later on that evening, after me and Siege parted ways, I was on fire when it came to opening. Maybe it was because I was warmed up from doing the day-game but I must have opened in the neighborhood of 20-30 sets. I’ve been in this stuff for 2 years and have never opened that many sets in a single day! My wing even called me on Sunday to congratulate me, saying I was an approach machine.

Other things I learned-

FOR GODSAKE- JUST OPEN!! If you don’t open, ain’t shit going to happen. (We all hear this, but not everyone takes it to heart)
IF HER FRIENDS COME INTO THE SET, QUICKLY INTRODUCE YOURSELF TO THEM.

Bottom line: CJ’s coaching = results. I look forward to working and learning from this guy in the future. “”

Achilles

20 Hour – Coaching – $1800.00 LESS Than 1/3 of National FMV… AND up to 4 TIMES the content, after follow up, bonusBONUS, Bonuses! :) :)

Posted by on June 6, 2012 1,003 comments

Congratulations! This is the package most closely designed to increase your progress & give you the most dramatic results to your permenant skill set.

We will be meeting in several sessions, each at 2,3 or 4 hours a piece. This way, we can spread out the meeting times to maximize on your learning, attention/comprehension span. We will use each session for discussion/instruction, then once we identify what you need to be working on next, we will practice those out in small roleplays to have the situations well practiced. Then we will go out in the field for you to get in real life interactions wiht me monitoring from nearby. As it may look like I am texting, I will be taking notes for our later conversations.

Betweeen sets I will give you small parts of feedback and quick tips to go into next set with. Then at the close of a session, we will re-cap what went on in the interactions with more in depth feedback and what to be practicing out in situations between then and next time we meet.

I will also be sending you emails between session for review 7 to keep working on the practice to develop the habits.

For these I will ask you for you upcoming regular schedule so we can work out times that fir best with what skill set you are working to imoprove and in a time that fits both of our schedules.

So as soon as you complete the paypal transaction, make sure you send me an email with your phone #, a summary of where you are & where you would like to progress to, and a sketch of your weekly schedule. I will get backk to to confirm & we will choose days that best for what you are working with.

Thank You
C.J. “The Siege” Clark