Things to work on:
1. Need to have my scripts better memorized
2. use this line for girls who are 9s and 10s otherwise just get a “thank you”
a. “I noticed you over there, and I had to come over and say hi and see what you are like.”
3. Instead of asking for the number just make it into a statement like “let’s exchange contact info”
4. Work more on body language
5. Pausing after the opener and expecting a reaction back from her
6. If she says she is in a rush, say “yeah, I have to be somewhere too”, and then keep talking
7. I go off and talk and talk without inviting her to participate in the conversation by asking what she thinks or asking her if she understands what I am saying
8. I give up after they say they have a boyfriend or if they are in a rush, or if they are meeting someone
9. Don’t speak loud enough and project your voice, speak a little too fast

Review:
CJ is a great coach and is very committed to improving your dating skills, all the way from the very first approach to setting up a future date. He really has a lot of knowledge and experience in this area, and he is a very genuine and fun person to hang out with, making your session an awesome experience.

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“Coming to a newbie near you!”

(Guy from previous event working with C.J. “The Siege”, he was first hesitant to say hi to new girls. This was a booby rubbing makout in the street)

Intensive instruction,

Vegas-relevant SNL formula, and much more.
Also for first 2 guys who sign up, there will also be an extra late-night wing service. When C.J. is looking to pull, he raises buying temperatures of whole groups of girls, then invites all back for after party you too can be a part of.

And once one girl sees their friends making out, they want to be making out too. Once one the girl you are flirting with hears sexy time going on in the other room, she wants sexy time too. The fun energy spreads throughout a group of girls till they all want some action.

And remember, being Halloween means it’s time for fantasy role-play. A girl wasn’t a fling to happen on her dream vacation, especially in Vegas, so romantic.

You can always let them know sometime in the middle of the night “Don’t worry, we can live our fantasy tonight, what happens in Vegas, stays in Vegas”

Do it now, you have nothing to lose – I have a 100% rock solid no-BS money back guarantee.

http://www.eventbrite.com/event/2385142024

“Hey hunny, great talking to you, you should come to the after party, AT OUR HOUSE, with a POOL, and Jacuzzi!!” ~C.J. “The Siege” and You to the group of girls you are both talking to (see ‘Wing’ mentioned above).

Read that quote over again.

Now remember it. Once you are rolling along in conversation with some new girls, drop that into conversation to see some girl’s eyes light up!

The from there all you have to do is work out logistics to move you all back to the Place wwhen sexy fun is about to happen.

You see, Siege is there with a single fun outcome in mind that will prioritize the others throughout what is going on. Sure He’ll be enjoying the rest ov=f Vegas, with a particular radar on.

And ALSO remember, what he is looking to have he gets so once one girl in the group is making out, that feeling transfers to the girl you are talking to with him as your wing.

Then she want’s to making out, this increasing your ability to escalate with her ENORMOUSLY!!

Then once back to the pad, the girl you are talking to hears/sees sexy time going on with C.J. and his girl. She too want to be having sexy-time since the mere thought of hearing her friend enjoying the pleasures she wants, will raise her buying temperature like you’d never believe…that is unless you have singed up for the Vegas Event

And Luke Krogh, a veteran dating coach has generously opened up his Project Las Vegas Mansion to us all as a crash pad, base of operations. All those coming will not need to rent a hotel, we can all stay at the Project Las Vegas Mansion. He will also be a guest instructor over the Wingman Weekend. We will have a total of 4 coaches and and a few wingwomen. Read more below

Complete details [TBA and subject to change/elaborate until event]

Days/Nights available 10/28/11 – 11/01/11

Winggirl also may be available for both day/night! This shows all nearby girls in venue that you are pre-selected by women, A WOMAN FRIENDLY GUY, & when they hear her laughing girls around are jealous of the fun she’s having.

Wing girl is also great for opening groups of girls and introducing guys in to a now warm enviroment.

Package listed here is for 1 daygame & 1 night game session, 2 daygame sessions or 2 nightgame session. For other package combinations contact C.J. for details.

Flight//Halloween costume up to discretion of attendees.

Value/discount assistance on all 3 accommodations available by request. Any questions: 857-544-1943

“C.J. is great. He understands women and understands how to teach what he knows. I really recommend this group if you’re interested in picking up girls and wanting to get better. His daygame advice helps a lot and I’ve improved immensely with dealing with approach anxiety. With just two sessions with him, I’ve already gotten myself to approach a lot more women than I would have, which would have been zero. Definitely worth checking out.” – Anonymous Member

“Over- abundance of girls walking around, all over & Newbury st. Feels like a candy store! ” – Anonymous Member

“I’ve been to one daygame meetup so far and really enjoyed it and benefited from it. The atmosphere was fun, supportive, and welcoming. CJ was very involved, gave a lot of personal attention and help, and was very encouraging and positive. His advice made sense, seemed helpful, and was done in a simple and manageable way. In general CJ seemed to be a cool guy who really wants to help other men succeed in this area of life. I also enjoyed the camaraderie with Justin. It’s about a three plus hour round trip for me to Boston but I’ll definitely be going again because it’s worth it! ” – Anonymous Member

“I think this meetup group is fantastic, CJ is very experienced and helpful, I am looking forward to the upcoming meetings.” – Anonymous Member

“CJ really knows what he is talking about. He helped me overcome approach anxiety and thought me how to hang in there even when things seemed lost.” – Anonymous Member

An open mind

Can do attitude

A new, fun party city

New wingman friends

Seduction arts instruction and exposure to a new Mindset, Model, Action paradigm

Take massive action in field, day & night …

Blast through limiting beliefs

Get with a beautiful stranger

Bring your new skills & new beliefs back to your home town …

These are the short version notes & primary ingredients to the Wingman Party Vacation Weekend and the outcomes for recent clients. Of course, it is all about you – and how this weekend away will finally get your game to the next level.

It is about how a group of Wingman strangers become fast friends in the context of a new city, a sexy and sensual women filled environment, where the only limit to how much fun you will have is actually you and the attitude you bring.

It is also about how you will take massive action on what I teach you both in seminar and in-field to get you past your current sticking points. And you will quickly discover that it is not as hard as you imagined … A simple, easy to remember and implement system to approach, engage and seduce women.

This will primarily be a hang out, wing with coaches and a wingwoman, party event – with some structured seminar class, but mostly in-field ad hoc instruction with your coach right next to you.

It is purposefully structured so that we spend the most time “in-field” where the women are – during the day at pedestrian shopping mall areas, coffee shops, parks – and at night – lounges, restaurants, bars, clubs.

Each morning we collectively de-brief and share our experiences to solidify the learning experience. But, no doubt, you will be making rapid progress, because the Wingman dynamics create a situation that gets you to take consistent action.

Our coaching style is as drill instructor or nurturing as you want it to be – whatever it takes to get you improvements. You will be pushed if you want to be, and not if you are not ready to get out of your comfort zone in terms of approaching women, etc. Just tell us up front. However, the truth is that you will progress more if you continually push yourself – and we will be there to help you.

My goal is to make the Wingman Party Weekend like that college road trip experience that you may or may not have had — that awesome party trip, the one in which you created memories and built lifelong camaraderie with your friends that you still laugh and talk about decades later.

On this trip you will learn the A to Z of how to engage and seduce a woman you find dateable. As part of the seminar/workshop, which I will keep to about 90 minutes a day, you will gain insight to the powerful Inner Game that makes the Outer Game less significant but more impactful.

Ok, so how do you know if this is right for you?

you want to learn a simple, easy, fun model to use in-field
you want to get better approaching and engaging women
you have approach anxiety but can still speak to strangers
you want to learn how to rapidly escalate
you want to learn how to seamlessly extract and seduce and close
you want to improve your non-verbals and learn how to project a sexual vibe
you want to create a great first impression
you want to learn to be direct without coming off as a caveman
you want to be able to create more opportunities for yourself with women
you want to spend more time in-field under the supervision of an experienced coach

Don’t let this be another great life experience you deliberated to death. You will miss another chance to grow your social skills, party and build camaraderie with Wingmen of the highest caliber, and forgo the chance to make memories that will last a lifetime.

You may have your doubts, I would too if I were in your shoes. So, to take all of the risk out of your decision, I am offering a 100% no BS guarantee. If you come to a Wingman Party Weekend with us and feel that you did not get your moneys worth, I will give you back the money you gave to us. No BS, just let me know by Sunday morning that this was not for you, or that you did not get the value you expected, and I will refund your fees.

Look, a lot of my clients were fence sitters for a long time, fearful of pulling the trigger.

At this point you can do one of 3 things. Just click away, ignore this opportunity – keep doing what you have been doing, and keep getting the same results you have been getting. Or try to do this yourself, read more e-books, listen to more .mp3s, watch more videos and try to implement it yourself over a period of years.

Or – Option 3, sign up and join me in Las Vegas for the Wingman Weekend where I will teach you all you need to know about getting with that dateable woman you want – no secret sauce, no magic wizard like powers required, just the fundamentals that will get you the results you want. Do it now, you have nothing to lose – I have a 100% rock solid no-BS money back guarantee.

These Wingman Party Weekend events are offered nationwide to about 2,000 guys, so you can lock in your seat right now before they’re gone.

And Luke Krogh, a veteran dating coach has generously opened up his Project Las Vegas Mansion to us all as a crash pad, base of operations. All those coming will not need to rent a hotel, we can all stay at the Project Las Vegas Mansion. He will also be a guest instructor over the Wingman Weekend. We will have a total of 4 coaches and and a few wingwomen. Read more in post

C.J., “The Siege”
And if you decide that you want to live this lifestyle, year long, here is tha roommate application: http://www.adventuresofattraction.com/do-you-remember-pro…

This of this event as an intro sample of what it can be like

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Vegas recommendations ~DSmoothMike, Assist to Dating Coach
by Cj Siege
There is some people on this forum heading to Vegas, so I thought I’d put in my recommendations and what I’ve learned:

1. Girls at tables won’t talk to you that much.

Well, if it’s tables like Craps or Roulette, they got time to talk after their turn, or during their turn, but when it comes down to card games, they would prefer not to talk, but think up ways on how to win. You ca

2 set with Ian
I had black haired girl switch seat with me as I tell blk hair’d girl “keep my friend occupied for a minute, I wanna see what your friend is like.

Or ask her permission since she already had okayness.

- Does this coach conduct himself publicly ? Is he visible at meetings, live events, etc?

- Can this coach provide references of former clients who are reputable and can vouch for him?

- Can he provide proof that he possess the skills necessary to make improvements in your life

- Do you feel this coach has your best interest at heart? Or is he only interested in making money off of you?

- What is this coach charging? Is it in line with market value?

Links should be active from your readership. if not PM me to let me know. thanks.

While all packages booked (to be used whenever) but booked and paid for before November 1, I will still honor the price, and deliver services at any time scheduled from booking time to Noveber 1 2012, per request of student.

But Yes guys, those are the ones I ate alone as long as I could to keep prices to allow more guys, everyday guys get the help the want & need.

But a few things went up, some equipment to help coaching sessions, so the prices will go up, in direct relation these expenses. So I will honor all packages booked before November 1, 2011 services, packages, bootacamps, nationaal events can be collected until Novemeber 1 20012.

[[[While I am the FYI, it's a bit away, but again prices for coaching packages will have to increase once again in December at some point, to equalize the new training facility, the Bootcamp lodguing that sleeps 10, and a few more developments.]]]

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Me: So I was talking to my friend about going to aparty friday
I’ve known her for a while and I think she likes me a little bit
I went to meet her and her friends and when we got to the fratthey wouldn’t let guys in so they just bailed on me
I gave her a little attitude and she said to call her, which I dismissed
Today she texts me:”How are you”
What do you think I should do?
I feel like need to give her a little punishment to her know that this kind of behavior is not acceptable
So what do you think I should do about this girl?
She just texted me asking if I’m mad at her
CJ: Tell her: “What would you do that would make me mad at you?”
Me: She said: “IDK you weren’t responding”
So she’s trying to play coy
What’s next?
CJ: That’s exactly the kind of response I was guessing… like “What DID you do that would make me mad?” Has her thinkingof exactly what it is she did
Me: But what should my response be to her playing coy and saying she doesn’t know?
CJ: No rush, time is on your side
Me: So response for now, let her get back to me with an apology?
CJ:Although she is thinking it(obviously) than that is enough. She already saw that you hold off from getting right back at to her and is trying the two together. Now you can play totally cool and unaffected
You can even play it up a bit: “I’m sure if you had done something, you would make it up to me”
( You don’t need an apology. She might still hold off from admitting outloud she had done something wrong. Even when it happened, if you had played it off like you didn’t care either way she probably wouldn’t have done it. Girls are like that, seeing you cared inspires girls to do wacky things)
Me: Should I text it now or give it like an hour or two
CJ: By not directly saying you were bothered at all shows what she has no effect on you. You have fun wherever you go and she can come along or miss it. Even if she bring up that night, I would talk about something super phenomenal and way more fun than the party she missed cause she went. Give it some time, claim you’ve just been busy.. and gently see how she makes it up to you. You are slightlymore in the zone of her chasing you. Earning your validation, don’t play it too much or she’ll stop trying. You’re just busy and couldn’t get right back to her the second she texted you.

That being said, once I put an offer out there, I don’t take it back so whenever you are ready to work on general escalation, building sexual tension through dialog to tease, creative misinterpretation, sending out Rated G messages that she’ll interpret as rated X (allowing u to playfully reprimand her mischeif), Slow steps before & throughout the kiss to keep he desire super up till the close, ect…I will also include the steps for SNL-Blueprint for you to know.And also Remember, any time – feel free to send me single questions via email. I will always do my best to get those answered timely and that is always free as a previous client (no expiration date)

My daygame experience with CJ the Siege
Just this past Saturday I went out for daygame coaching with Siege. I have worked with CJ in the past and knew he has a great deal of value to offer, so when I found out he was doing FREE coaching I jumped at the opportunity.

When I arrived at Copley (got there late due to traffic from the Sox game) CJ was demonstrating for some newbies how to approach on the street using a simple opener. (If you want to know the opener, you will just have to ask CJ in person or PM him). The first time I tried it, on a two-set of black chicks, the target seemed warm but her friend pulled her away so I erroneously concluded the opener was bad.

Here is where the coaching came in handy. CJ pointed out that I used the opener just fine but that I paused for too long after the target reacted. He emphasized that you have to be ready to follow-up! So I lost the set not because there was inherently anything wrong with me, but simply because I didn’t keep the conversation flowing. This was simple, usable feedback that I was able to implement right way.

So within 1-2 more approaches of making the adjustment, I immediately got into an engaging 5-10 minute conversation with this cute lawyer chick as we walked up Boylston St. We then parted ways and I returned to Copley.

Another memorable set was a two-set right outside of a restaurant on Newbury St. CJ was observing me from just a few feet away and critiqued the entire set from beginning to end. At one point he even came into the set, showing me how to make natural conversation. Like so many men, I’ve struggled in this area and heavily rely on canned material and routines. CJ emphasized that I should listen more to what the girls are saying and even use that for material to talk about. For example, the girls had an accent so Siege asked them where they were from and worked conversation on that topic for a bit before transitioning to another topic.

I recall a street approach where I watched as CJ got a number-close from this pretty blond. It always helps to observe guys that know what they are doing in-field and then try to emulate them. It gives you a chance to see body language and how women react.

These are just a few examples of the sets that were opened. What I am learning is that simple adjustments in your game can make all the difference.

Now here is something interesting. Later on that evening, after me and Siege parted ways, I was on fire when it came to opening. Maybe it was because I was warmed up from doing the day-game but I must have opened in the neighborhood of 20-30 sets. I’ve been in this stuff for 2 years and have never opened that many sets in a single day! My wing even called me on Sunday to congratulate me, saying I was an approach machine.

Other things I learned-

FOR GODSAKE- JUST OPEN!! If you don’t open, ain’t shit going to happen. (We all hear this, but not everyone takes it to heart)
IF HER FRIENDS COME INTO THE SET, QUICKLY INTRODUCE YOURSELF TO THEM.

Bottom line: CJ’s coaching = results. I look forward to working and learning from this guy in the future.

Achilles

No Athletic Wear
No Sleeveless Tees
No Polo’s or polo style shirts
No Rugby shirts
No Shorts
No Sweats
No Hats
No Excessively baggy clothing
No Construction boots
No Sneakers

Be ready. I stick to those guidelines when I go out any day I might want to hit a club after.

My first text to her was:

“…and quit stalking me, we just met :p. Ttyl”

& this was a continuation of our previous playful convo.

She replies:
“Haga I already found u on facebook! ”

These don’t always work unless you have the right context set first.

(Previous convo written & posted upon request)

“Biggest turn-on? The ‘taint’… a girls: ‘goosh’ ya the little…” ~Lu.Al.

His closing comments:

“Thanks
And hey at this point ill write you a cover piece for a magazine if you want me to”

I’ll post up the transcript after the weekend, it is about ofhanded LMR & how to playfull warm ack up. Stay tuned, I’ll post it when he gets it typed up & sent to me.

Deep Rapport

Like all that I do,
I’d rather help a guy for free who is ready to take the steps directed
to get the results they bring
than have that same guy not come
because he couldn’t afford it
or even if he just didn’t want to spend money at that time.
I’d rather see his new results with my own eyes than any cost.
High-5s going off in my head at those times.

I am just saying this for guys who come out to help at GSFs.

Push guys into sets.

Standing around ‘in field’ talking theory is another version of how wings may stay in convos with wings as to not open sets.

Sure it may make you feel good because you feel knowledgeable in a subject…but real life applications seen is what shows your expertise.

Push guys into sets and get into sets yourself to show by example. That is like contagious.

We as guys see our pals opening sets & the fun, successful results really happening & we do the same.

In field, small tips can be shared for a quick help on the next one but rambling on & on in field is like explaining the mechanics of tanks while in battle.

Coaching/Wing package for Vegas Halloween wknd!!

Commands vs “Let’s” statements.

Authoritarian vs Authoritative.

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