[private]I like a good balance between hott looking and hott personality. Thing is, is that a hott personality can make you hott looking to me but hott in a photo doesn’t make up for a boring personality.[/private]
Monthly Archives: August 2011
[private]Not so well with the 9s & 10s I want in my life.
Two sides of this coin as well.
9s & 10s are generally more eager to be opened while 6s and 7s have the highest bitch sheilds on since they get hit on so much.
9s and 10
“You are so cute”
“You are adorable” works on 6, 7, 8s sure.
I find myself getting first impression tempo better set for girls of that caliber.
But the ones that really are adorable, I stick to more vague indications…or none at all, at first about their looks…the rest of the world can do that for her.
You want remarks that are really heard & felt?
Think about this before you try to compliment:
“Compliment the beautiful on their intelligence and the intelligent on their beauty”
I have no single thing I say every time, but here was one of them:
“Yeah if I wasn’t gay I’d totally think you might have potential” after I look her down, up and down again.
She could tell I wasn’t gay, just joking or my not caring whether or not she thought I was gay. I was just being playful, joking around.
The most direct I might get with a 9/10 is: “I saw you pass by & I had to say hi.”[/private]
Confidence is one of those things that continues to build upon itself. The more you show it, the more respond to it in ways that increase it within you.
The more confidence you show, the more people receive from you and respect you [private] for.
Speaking confidently is a great first step. Just walking thro ugh the steps at first will cause you to show more confidence causing the cycle I just mentioned to streat building itself up.
Start with your voice. Speak loudly and clearly. You will see people responding to this right away. I tell my students to practice on store clerks. They see a bunch of people.
Really at the point you think you are being too loud, you are still not loud enough.
Go and practice on the people who are already there to be polite to you. You will see right away that they are extra courteous back to you and quick to fill your requests.
Then take that practice and apply it to other new people you meet in the world, you will see another improvement that the response you get will increase the confidence you have inside as a feeling too, [/private]
Being very comfortable talking about the subject with all it’s details in a casual way takes the awkwardness out of the dynamic. You can stay aloof and detached from anyone else’s awkwardness about sex since it is a beneficial part of life and really, it is no big deal. That is what media censorship has done to it, not you.
[private]Measuring how well a guy can kiss, is a huge factor in her decision to sleep with him later. Girls like a guy to be making the first move for a kiss. Girls find a good kisser to be the one who caresses her during kissing. Pull her into you from the small of her back, indicating some sleight urgency (hinting at later escalation). You can cup her face on both sides with that palms of your hands or use one hand to hold her head to you. I frequently let my fingertips do a feather-like touch down the back of their arms on bare skin to let them know of teasing later.
At this closeness, they do so notice & like a guy who smells fresh. They actually think of how good his mouth tastes when deciding whether or not to kiss him again, so it is great to have gum or mints in your back pocket for whenever the possibilities may arise.[/private]
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Lastly we talked about my TO DO LIST:
1. Writing mini-field reports of your testing out the things I taught you with results you had.
(This will show me better ways to tweak things to where you are at, what will jump you up to the next level…and by writing to me, with my name and the specific results you are getting so I can save it to my progress reports of students, always inspires me to add some extra time in field & teaching as a bonus for you.)
2.. Write a reminder to self to approach 5 people a day. Write one or two sentences about each approach and send to you as accountability.
(If you send me these lists, or mini-field reports from them gets me understanding what you need most next and fires me up to figure out what will get you the most dramatic growth in the least amount of time….the best dramatic rewards from interactions you get in.)
4. Work on alpha voice everyday. Practice with clerks, waitresses, store help. Even when you think you are too loud, you most likely still are not loud enough. it comes with practice.
(We have started with some notes about body language and posture as well. There is more you can do to easily expand your alpha-masculine presence. I have also gotten subtle notes from my chick-friends and that is always helpful.)
–Let d’Adventure Continue
~C.J. ”The Siege” © 201[/private]
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[private]“I have to give HUGE props to CJ, aka Siege. Not only is he a great teacher and knows his stuff, but its obvious that he genuinely cares and wants us to learn. With just a few words, he has this weird/amazing ability to whittle away all the bullshit and excuses I make for myself and get me to approach.”
Thanks Ender, great progress today
Sometimes a girl who has seen a guy she likes the look of, she will find a way to put herself in a close proximity to where that guy is.
Sometimes they will stand [private] a few feet in front of him, or a bit in front and off at an angle.
These types of girls wont usually make any clearer moves than this. They may turn around as if they are looking around, past the guy, behind him.
They do this so the guy has a chance to see what she looks like and if he is interested will make a move of some sort.
I think most of this happens subconsciously, that they don’t even really think about what they are doing.
Something in their biological coding has given them an instinct to stand close enough for him to see her and make a move if he is interested.
This is another form of ‘inviting you to approach.’ Since she is so close on purpose, there really is no need to do any physical approaching, just be loud and say ‘hi’.
Once the conversation starts to engage well, she will start to move close to you, which is a great start to generating the momentum of her coming to you, her chasing you in a tiny way.
From what I have seen in the way you start and maintain an opening conversation, I would recommend you stand strong staying still while you are talking at first.
As you see her ‘ping’ of turning towards you and focusing her attention on you, you may take a tiny move in her direction to show her a ‘pong’ but not to much, you would be inviting the closeness.
Each situation takes a different amount of how much to ‘pong’ her ‘pings’, but this is something you will be learning more with each interaction.
It is a part of calibration. Your body language responding to her body language that is responding to your body language and so on.
This is another way to be communicating in subtext and without words that girls love and feel a way deeper rapport about.[/private]
…controlling the chase, making her [private]come to you.
You want her reacting to your moves. Not the other way around.
Use your alpha bait, control your emotions and use great patience to have trophy women. [/private]
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[private]One of the first sets I opened, I hooked real quickly. Later that night a guy was asking me if it was just a warm-up set. Ok, you can look at it that way but it has more levels than that. Once you do warm-up enough, they become habit, enjoying new conversations where-ever you go.
One of the girls was kind of pretty and the other was lesser, no problem. They both had kids & if I was curious for more, I would have offhandedly looked at her left hand…but I wasn’t interested so I didn’t even check. I just enjoyed the conversation at hand
I just enjoyed our conversation. Like warm-ups, staying in active conversation keeps a social momentum within oneself to go on to the following sets.
Also I may hear things in early conversation that I bring up later ones “Ice skating? I was just talking to Janice over here that was telling me of her 4 year old learning ice skating…” (further indicating a women-friendly guy) and the conversation has many places to go from there.
As you may have noticed or not, girls in any venue are frequently scanning the place that they are in. You can bet that when you roll out of one group of girls directly into another, the second one already saw you talking to the first group. On top of that, if you happen to be doing some off handed scanning of the room yourself while in conversation with the first group and see another girl(s) looking your way, it is great to pause the conversation you are in and walk on over to the second group.
It can be as easy as “Excuse me guys, I’ll be back in a few, I have to go say hi to my friends.”
This is not rude or impolite on any level. You just met the first group and were chatting a bit. You are leaving on a high note to easily roll back in at any time throughout the night and resume. And the second group may not be your friends yet, but you are going in with best intention..if they are cool enough, they will be new friends.
All this leaving you just looking like the sociable guy who has people to touch base with.
To the second group that you walk over to open, you are already pre-selected as a woman-friendly guy. They have seen you happily chatting with other girls, maybe the first set was laughing at times too. Underneath it all, the second group of girls will have felt like the stole you away from the first group in a subtle way. They don’t think this literally so much, but kind of feel that way. They are more eager to be opened and to be doing more to be holding your attention since they did see you have other people to be talking to and could leave a group of girls at any moment if they don’t play their cards right.
Started with talking to the married chicks because they are closest to where the venue was entered from, starts the momentum that leads to better things in the way that my night progresses from there.[/private]
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Just on the bus & rolling along in some conversation with a girl. We talked about fun things I was doing over the past few days & she liked the [private] things I described a lot. Although I wasn’t attracted to her in the least bit, out of habit I suggest we trade contact, which we do…then she tells me she lives with 16 girls who also don’t know much around town of what’s going on, all from Ireland
Once again, I didn’t even know her name till I was punching in her info to my phone. The main part of this, is that I would have never known all the side potential if I disregarded trading info because she wasn’t that attractive. She was cool if nothing else. [/private]
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[private][private]Uoffhanded affection can come from picking the lint from her clothes, taking the eyelash from her cheek, taking the lint from her chin.
Make no big deal out of this, get it done & keep moving along, keep talking like it’s nothing.[/private]
near the bar area, [private]…you can pretend to spontaneously notice them and wander over to say hello. Usually girls in groups are mroe likely to be polite at firsy as not to look rude in front of their friends.